When it comes to marriage ceremonies, perhaps one of the most iconic symbols of the event is the traditional white wedding gown. Settling on a particular gown is often a major milestone and expense in preparing for the big day. Finding your wedding dress can be a group activity involving the participation (and opinions) of loved ones. There may even be an expectation that you will wear an heirloom garment that has been passed down in your family. However, the reality is that not everyone is into the classic white dress. Here are some other ideas to consider when you’re not feeling the idea of a white gown.
Change Color
Not everyone is into white as a color (or absence of color) for their nuptials. Consider wearing a gown in another color altogether. Is there a favorite shade that complements your skin tone or the color of your hair and eyes? Make that the basis of your color story for your wedding attire. You can find a dress that has the same silhouette of a gown, but in a hue that is more in line with your personal taste. Remember that it’s your special day. You can do whatever you want.
Ditch the gown and Suit Up
Perhaps color isn’t the issue and it’s more about the silhouette for you. Consider wearing a pantsuit. You’re in control, and the right pantsuit conveys a sense of power, letting people know that you’re the boss (or one of the bosses) on your big day. You might even take things a step further out of the ordinary by wearing a white suit or tuxedo. A power suit has been a go-to for many celebrity weddings, to the point that you may be able to shop for such an outfit at the same place you’d find a dress. Get your suit tailored for a perfect, flattering fit.
Jump to It
A jumpsuit provides an alternative that sits between a wedding dress and a full suit. Jumpsuits come in various colors, styles and fabric weights, making them an especially nice choice for both outdoor and indoor occasions at any time of the year. You can keep things light and breezy for a summery soiree, or go for something elegant with lacy details, merging gown sensibilities with the practicality of a jumpsuit.
Serve a Two-Piece Meal
Wedding gowns can be stuffy and restrictive. A two-piece outfit gives you options to maximize flexibility and versatility. You can mix and match different colors, textures, styles and designers to suit your sartorial mood. Two-piece combinations can be customized for the weather demands of a certain season or destination. Your top could be a sweater, a blouse or a crop top, while your bottom is a skirt, pants or even shorts. For additional dimension, you can also play with layering.
Go Shorter
It could be that you’re willing to say yes to a different type of dress. A cocktail dress can be a fun, cheeky alternative to the typical gown. This particular choice has the benefit of being dressy while also being less fussy, restrictive and expensive. Cocktail dresses come in a variety of lengths, giving you the choice to decide how much leg to show on your special day. An added bonus is that these outfits can be comfortably worn for the wedding, the reception and for honeymoon travel. Go with your favorite designer’s ready-to-wear outfit or choose a bespoke option that reflects your personality and unique sense of style.
Even if you’re someone who tends to lean traditional when it comes to tying the knot, you’re free to do your own thing for the wedding outfit. It’s your big day, and you should feel both comfortable and beautiful, whatever you decide to wear. If a traditional white gown is going to increase your stress on the big day, just say no!
