Have you ever thought about all the time and money involved in planning your wedding? According to one report, the average wedding with a honeymoon costs between $22,000 and $28,000 for each couple. That doesn’t count all the hours you’ve spent talking to vendors, trying on dresses and looking for the perfect decorations to show off your style and personality.
Types of Wedding Insurance
The two main types of wedding insurance are the following:
Event liability and property damage, which provides protection in case there are accidents arising from your wedding, such as a guest who gets injured or an alcohol-related accident
Event cancellation or postponement insurance, which covers nonrefundable expenses if the event is cancelled or postponed.
Some companies offer a discount when both types of insurance are purchased together.
Although many vendors require some kind of liability insurance as part of renting the facility, this insurance doesn’t protect your investment in the wedding should the worst happen. Maybe one of you gets food poisoning the night before the ceremony. Perhaps a flight gets canceled, causing you to not arrive in time to your destination wedding. It could be as simple as bad weather or an unexpected military deployment. Whether you just have to postpone the event or even cancel it, wedding insurance is a good idea to protect your money. You get back any non-recoverable deposits from hotels and suppliers as well as damages.
What Does Wedding Insurance Cover?
Each insurance company will have different policies and contracts. Generally, a wedding insurance package designed to protect you in case of cancellation covers certain things:
Damage to wedding gifts for up to 24 hours after receiving them.
Non-recoverable deposits paid to various vendors who fail to meet contractual obligations. For example, the limousine that is taking the bride and groom to the airport doesn’t show up. Insurance covers the costs of another vehicle.
Physical damage to the dress or rings, usually with limits of the damage happening within a certain time frame.
Reimbursement for pre-paid and non-recoverable costs of the honeymoon if the wedding is canceled or postponed.
Coverage to replace photographs or DVDs if these items need to be retaken. Also it can cover the cost to replace a photographer at the last minute if something happens.
Direct loss or damage to the wedding cake and flowers.
If you have expenses that arise out of trying to avoid a cancelation, for instance, you have to take a more expensive flight to get to your destination on time, your insurance would cover those charges.
Is Wedding Insurance for You?
Many people think that wedding insurance is only for high-end weddings. Of course, if you’re spending $20,000 or more on an event that’s a year away, you should protect that investment. However, insurers base insurance premiums on the limits you need to protect your investment. Just make sure to talk to your insurance provider and fully understand the limits on your coverage. Think about the risks you have with your event. If you’re worried about someone who’s been drinking at your party going out on the road, look for a “host liquor liability” policy. Or don’t have alcohol.
Wedding insurance is available up to a year before the wedding, although it does need to be purchased at least 30 days before the event. It’s a good idea to get the insurance once you’ve made the first deposit to a vendor or event planner. It might be difficult to imagine that your big day could have a hiccup, but the reality is that no one knows what’s going to happen tomorrow. It’s just wise to protect your investment with the right insurance. You’ll sleep better knowing that you won’t lose your money that has been given to different vendors.
On September 13, “The Bachelorette Canada” premieres on W Network. The American show, “The Bachelorette” has been a popular mainstay of summer television for a number of years. The premise is simple. A group of men compete for the hand of a single woman. Each week, the bachelorette narrows the field until there is just one left. The men and woman go on dates, sometimes one-on-one, sometimes as a group, to explore the local culture and get to know each other. It’s anticipated that the final date will be a proposal, but no one really knows for sure until the end. During the final episode of the U.S. version of “The Bachelorette” that just aired, one big storyline was that of the men asking the bachelorette’s dad for permission to marry his daughter.
JoJo was this season’s bachelorette. She had expected a proposal during her season on “The Bachelor,” but it was not to be. She was then given the opportunity to be the star of her own season, and viewers saw her go through many dates around the world finally narrowing her choices to Jordan and Robby. When the two men met the parents (on separate days), they each had discussions about the importance of JoJo’s family and how much JoJo wanted her parents to approve of her future husband. Robby did talk to JoJo’s father and ask his permission to ask JoJo to marry him. Jordan did not. Robby was ready to propose to JoJo, but she did not give him the opportunity. When she finally met with Jordan, the discussion revolved around how disappointed she was that he never got her father’s permission to propose to her. He made a call and talked to her father, then proposed. JoJo said yes.
Do Adults Need Parental Permission to Get Engaged?
In days past, a woman was considered the property of her father. When she married, her father would lose her work toward the household duties. She would be required to get her father’s permission to marry. For centuries, women were not allowed to own property themselves and they almost always needed a patriarchal figure. Fortunately, this has begun to change over the years, and there are no such limitations. “The Bachelorette” reminded Americans of this custom and many people wonder if a woman really needs permission to get engaged or to get married.
JoJo is an adult who was fairly established in her career and life’s path. She made it clear to Jordan that the tradition was important to her, but not because she was subject to her parents. This is a valid point. She also communicated her needs to Jordan very clearly so that he understood how much it meant to her. It seemed to be about family, not the permission. She wanted her family included in her decision.
Many women today aren’t as traditional. Family is complicated and complex. Today’s brides might have absentee dads or moms. What’s a groom to do when there isn’t a dad? What should a same-sex couple do when asking parents for permission? Which person asks permission if two women are being married? How should a groom act if the bride is much older, with children of her own or with deceased parents? How are you to know if you should ask permission before you get engaged? And, what are you going to do if the parents say no, should you ask?
The Solution?
When two people are considering marriage, it’s important to talk about what’s important to each person. Communication of your expectations is the only way to know what you should do. The tradition may seem outdated in today’s society, but it’s not necessarily about patriarchal permission. Before you take steps to propose, ask your partner about his or her thoughts. Then proceed accordingly.
From the time most girls are little, they start to plan the wedding of their dreams. It can seem as if the groom’s only job is to wait at the altar for the bride to show up. The wedding planning may be the bride’s venue, but as a groom, you can certainly get involved. This celebration commemorates the love you have for each other.
A Supportive Groom
Instead of letting one person take care of everything, both of you should be actively engaged in the planning. Here are some tips to help a groom be supportive and to have a say in what should be the most memorable day of your life.
Have opinions. Even though the details may seem minute to you, it’s important for the bride to see that you are engaged with the process. Be diplomatic when you really aren’t sure what the difference is.
Take care of your relationship through this time. You may be required to go through pre-marital counseling. Use that time as a stepping stone to build a better partnership.
Register for gifts with your bride. Use the time to learn more about her tastes and style instead of looking at it as a long shopping trip.
Help with the research of venues, caterers, or other vendors. Offer to help look for photographers or rental companies for the tuxes. Talk to friends or family members who have recently gotten married and ask them to share advice about their experience.
Go to the meetings with the vendors when you can. Not only will you share the time with your bride, but you also help take the pressure off her during planning.
Deal with your family during the planning and wedding. This may mean that you have to stand up to your mom when she inserts herself into the mix. Don’t expect your bride to mediate with your parents or siblings over wedding details. Work it out together, then make the decision known to everyone.
Be the stress relief. Take time out of your schedule to make sure you have dates with your bride that aren’t about the wedding. Make sure she has days to relax with her friends to help keep her sane. The closer the wedding gets, the more stressed she may feel. Being the helpmate before you ever get married will bring you closer together.
Don’t shirk on your responsibilities to your groomsmen. Pick out the gifts for the guys yourself. Schedule fitting times to meet with the guys, and stay on top of your own planning. If you have friends who may get out of line during the party and reception, talk to them beforehand and have a plan to deal with it.
Be appreciative. Thank the people who have been helpful in making the wedding happen. Help write thank-you notes for gifts that arrive.
Plan the honeymoon. Even though you may enjoy surprising your bride, don’t wait until the last minute to tell her where you’re going. Remember that the wedding night may not be all you expect. You both may be exhausted after the ceremony and reception, so don’t have so many expectations that it turns a positive day into a disappointing night.
Help Manage the Stress Instead of Adding to It
Every bride wants the perfect day for a wedding. You may have to be the voice of reason that reminds her that when something doesn’t go as planned, it’s okay. However, you can also do what you can to make sure things do go right. Help her check in with the vendors and wedding planner on the days before the ceremony. Ask her what you can do to help every step along the way so that you both get to the altar with less stress.
It’s hard enough to create a guest list for just adults, but dealing with kids at a wedding can be more complicated. When comes to young people, you have to decide first whether you want to and can include them at the affair. If you have space limitations, excluding children is a good place to start to keep the head count in check. If you decide to invite children, you do need to make some arrangements for them. Here are some thoughts to help you plan for children, or not, at your ceremony and reception.
Not Inviting Children
You should be prepared for people to ask you if their children are included on the invitation, even when it’s specifically addressed to just the parents. Have an answer ready, like, “no, we just can’t include children this time due to space parameters,” or “we need to limit the guest list.” If you’re allowing nieces, nephews or family members who are younger, say so. “We are only able to invite the children of our family.” It is very difficult to exclude children, but it is appropriate to only have those individuals at your wedding who you want. Just be tactful when you respond to people.
One additional note: It might be tempting to invite the kids to the ceremony only, but this isn’t recommended. Imagine how you would feel attending the service only to watch your friends or family go off to a party without you.
Inviting Children
Kids add a certain magic to a wedding because they experience it in a way adults cannot. Still, unattended children could easily turn into a black magic moment. You have to plan for kids in attendance.
Make sure you are clear about which children are invited from each family. If space isn’t an issue, then just put “and family” on the invitation. When space is an issue, you’ll need to write out each person’s name.
Dictate seating appropriately. Don’t put one adult at a table with lots of kids. Certainly reconsider placing all the children at a table without supervision. You might even consider having a designated adult or teenager, or a hired babysitter, keep an eye on things. It would be a small price to pay to maintain semblance and order while allowing parents to dance and enjoy the party too.
Talk to the caterer about offering a separate child’s meal that is simple and easy and something little ones will eat, such as chicken fingers or pizza. You might also request that the kids get served first because they won’t be as patient as adults. A sundae bar makes a great dessert option.
Keep the kids entertained. Set up a movie room or have goodie bags with crayons and color books. Place a few board games off to the side for after dinner. Provide diversions to keep everyone occupied.
Stay calm and have a sense of humor about the way the kids act. Ask your photographer to get those special moments of the kids dancing or sticking their fingers in the cake when no one’s looking. You can’t control every moment, so you might as well relax and just have fun with them.
Don’t apologize for giving your young friends the opportunity to take part in your wedding day. Children need to see these special moments to understand the world. However, you also don’t need to apologize for limiting your guest list and not allowing every child to attend. It’s your wedding and you need to make the best choices for you and your spouse. Do what needs to be done and stand firm. Just be prepared to deal with whichever option you choose to make the most of your ceremony and reception.
Decor is an essential component in a wedding. However, the decorations and floral arrangements you include are not the only thing to consider when it comes to the special details of your big day. There are some things that fall outside of the realm of both fashion and decor. Dubbed “wedding accessories” by industry experts in recent years, these are the little touches that help to connect you with your event and make it as memorable as possible on a personal scale. Use these suggestions to include the right accessories.
Decor & The Personal Items
A lot of time and energy is put into selecting the perfect wedding attire. From lavish dresses to tuxedos that look like they were plucked from an old film, couples want to look their best when walking down the aisle. However, what you wear is not solely about how you are perceived by others. The accessories you include can add a level of personal significance to your outfit. Some people include heirloom accessories or jewelry in order to feel connected to their families during this important milestone.
The accessories don’t need to be traditional accessories that are worn, either. Some couples purchase special hangers for their wedding garments in order to avoid wrinkles and creases. A personalized set of hangers can be a cute little feature that helps you feel excited for this new chapter in your life.
The Guest Book
The guest book at your wedding is another item that falls outside of the traditional decor category and more into the realm of accessories. Though many opt for an actual book for guests to sign, there are endless ways to get creative. Including an old typewriter and a long sheet of paper is a neat alternative that allows guests the chance to type out their messages of luck and love. A video guest book is also a popular option, with people recording their messages in a “confessional” style made popular on reality television.
The Party Members
Giving the members of your wedding party fun accessories can also be a great way to add another dimension of style to your event. If you have a ring bearer and flower girl, then consider hanging little signs on them with humorous messages. A flower girl with a sign that reads “follow the petals, follow the love” or a similar phrase can get guests to deliver some audible “awws” from the very start.
Similarly, you might want to give accessories to all of your bridesmaids or groomsmen as a way of thanking them for being involved. Though few people will actually see this accessory, custom socks can be a fantastic gift. Whether you personalize each pair to the person or order bulk socks with the same message, the people in your party will definitely want to wear them during the event.
The Little Touches With Decor
Plenty of couples have wedding themes these days. Whether your event is rustic, modern, or classic, be sure that any accessories you include in your big day complement the overall aesthetic. If you’re having a wedding meant to invoke the roaring parties of the 1920s, consider placement cards that boast a bold and vintage font that perfectly captures the bygone era. This is your chance to be as creative as possible, so think outside the box and find fun ways to put finishing touches on your wedding’s look.
Though the term itself is something of a new concept, wedding accessories have long been a part of the planning process. Before you finish putting together the details of your big day, think about how a couple of small accessories can help to add a delicious level of personal texture to the experience.
Can you name a Canadian wedding tradition off top of your head? Over the years, countless wedding traditions have come and gone. One of the biggest challenges you may face while planning your nuptials is knowing which practices to include. For many couples, incorporating local or historical rituals can be a perfect way to feel connected to your heritage. Take a moment to review these classic Canadian wedding traditions and see which might be a perfect fit for your upcoming celebrations.
Taking Time for Tea
If you’re planning on having a smaller guest list for your wedding, you may be looking for a way to include friends and associates who didn’t make the cut. One option to consider is the tradition of hosting a trousseau tea gathering. Essentially, this is a small party held a few days before the wedding where neighbors, coworkers, and anyone not invited to the official event can come together to celebrate the couple. Instead of serving a full meal, guests are treated to tea, baked goods, and other small snacks. This is a lovely way to make everyone feel included.
Dancing in Silly Socks
In Ontario, one French-Canadian ritual that has remained consistently popular at weddings over the years is the sock dance. Originally, this tradition involved the unwed older siblings of the bride and groom. During the reception, the brothers and sisters would take to the dance floor and don silly knee-high socks. The siblings would then dance for the guests, who would throw money at their feet. The siblings would then collect the money and deliver it to the happy couple. Nowadays, it is common for both married and unwed siblings to take part in this fun and entertaining tradition.
Creating a Convoy
Another French-Canadian tradition to consider for your big day is the wedding train. On the morning of the wedding, the family members and close friends of the couple gather together and create a convoy of cars. The group then drives their vehicles around the neighborhood where the couple is getting ready and makes as much noise as possible by honking their horns and shouting out the windows. The idea is to create an air of celebration to let everyone know that the wedding day has arrived. The noisy convoy will then travel from the neighborhood to the wedding venue.
Raising Funds
Throwing a wedding can easily cost a small fortune. One way that Canadian couples handle their event expenses is by hosting a fundraising social. This classic tradition is often referred to as a stag and doe party and is a way for the couple to raise money for their nuptials. Guests will purchase tickets to the party and be given food, drink, and entertainment. Anyone can buy a ticket, meaning the event is not limited to only those who will be invited to the official wedding. Some couples will even auction off exciting prizes to raise additional funds.
An Old Tradition of Putting a Penny in the Shoe
Plenty of older wedding traditions trace their origins back to the idea of encouraging good luck or warding off evil spirits. One popular custom that follows this concept is for the bride to put a penny in her shoe on the day of her wedding. By doing this, the bride is encouraging a future of prosperity and happiness with her partner. In recent years, this practice has not been limited to the bride. Anyone who is looking to bestow good energy and wealth upon the couple can add a coin to their own shoes.
Finding the Best Tradition for Your Wedding
Incorporating the right wedding traditions into your big day can be both a fun and challenging process. By looking at local traditions, you can guarantee your heritage is a foundational part of the event. Take your time to learn more about different Canadian customs and see which classic rituals are worth including in your celebrations.
With wedding costs rising as each year goes by, a DIY wedding seems more and more appealing. Thus, making sense that couples everywhere have taken an interest in the do-it-yourself approach to planning. The concept is simple: Instead of hiring professionals to take on challenges like decorating and creating floral arrangements, you will handle the details yourself. The goal of this option is to save money and take more control over the finished look of the event. Naturally, this is not always the easiest way to plan. To see success, look over these foundational elements of the process.
Start With Inspiration
Beginning the DIY process from scratch can be overwhelming. When you’re looking at a blank slate, you may feel nothing but stress and anxiety. Even creative people struggle to come up with good ideas when pressed. Thankfully, the solution is as easy as finding inspiration. Whether you create a mood board or casually browse blogs and Pinterest accounts, looking at images that invoke ideas can be a lifesaver. Inspiration can come from all kinds of places, so don’t limit yourself to only wedding-themed outlets.
Review the Practical Details For Your DIY
Looking at pretty pictures is only the start of the DIY process. To see results, you must also review the practical side of things. An idea might look beautiful in a picture and be incredibly difficult to execute. Looking at information like the materials required, time involved, and effort needed to complete each project can make a world of difference in devising a strategy. The biggest mistake people make when exploring DIY options is assuming a task will be easy and discovering too late that it is far more involved.
Source Materials
Understanding the practical side of the process also includes developing a better understanding of the materials involved. If you’ve decided to make your own invitations, for example, then you should start looking at how much it will cost you to source the cardstock and envelopes you’ll need. You should also factor in additional materials like stamps, ink, and whatever else might be needed. Failing to consider the costs of all supplies can throw off your budget, so be as realistic as you can when coming up with numbers.
Get Help
The truth about DIY tasks is that you and your partner will usually not be able to complete most projects on your own. In fact, you’ll benefit from as much manpower as possible. Before you set any of your projects in stone, reach out to close friends and family members to see if anyone is willing to lend a hand. By having access to help, you’ll be able to come up with a timeline of exactly how long it will take to complete everything you’re setting your sights on. Should you be unable to find people willing to assist, adjust your plan accordingly.
Mix and Match DIY
An entirely DIY event is not an easy feat to pull off. The best way to see success is by mixing and matching the do-it-yourself approach with more traditional methods. For some people, this means letting a professional handle floral arrangements while taking on the task of selecting unique vases as centerpieces. At the end of the day, DIY approaches are meant to make your life easier. For whatever is too difficult to handle by yourself, hire an expert to handle the job.
The DIY wedding can be a fantastic way to take more control over the look and feel of your event while saving some change along the road. Naturally, opting to do certain tasks yourself is not as simple as most people would prefer. Thankfully, as long as you put thought into your plan, you’ll have an easier time using this approach to the fullest.
Wedding traditions are constantly evolving to match modern couples’ ideas. The white wedding dress didn’t become a trend until 1840 when Queen Victoria married Prince Albert. Brides in the 1920s wore a hat as part of their wedding attire. The pandemic gave us micro-weddings that are more intimate, which is a trend expected to stick around. Here are some trends to watch for 2025 weddings that you can incorporate into your celebration.
Guest Books Go Digital
Guest books can be impersonal and often don’t get looked at after the wedding. There have been some changes in guest books over the past few years, and now many guests can write a sweet note to the wedding couple instead of just signing their name. Today’s couples are getting creative with their guest books. Guests could sign a piece of fabric that will be sewn into a quilt as a reminder of the wedding. Voice messages recorded at the wedding are another great idea that is a little more modern. Maybe you could give your guests a place to record a TikTok greeting for your wedding, or you could ask all guests to take a picture in a photo booth for the record; one copy goes to the wedding couple, and the guest can take another copy home. Get creative.
Invites Also Go Digital trends
Digital invites are eco-friendly and easier to deliver in today’s technical landscape. You may want to print a few invitations for the more traditional guests and for yourself. Still, you can use digital info to give guests more information about accessibility, accommodations and detailed notes about your wedding to avoid having to print out pages and pages of stuff everyone needs to know.
Colorful Wedding Dresses
Wedding dresses don’t have to be all white in upcoming weddings. Wedding dresses of all colors are hitting the runway, with baby blue and pastel pink as two of the most popular colors. Floral prints with a white background are also making their mark in modern weddings. Be bold and do you with color for your big day.
Small Bouquets
Dainty and delicate flowers, like lily of the valley, lavender and violets, are taking the stage for small and elegant floral bouquets. This lets the bride and her dress stand out at the altar, without having the maid of honor needing an extra hand to manage a big bouquet. Many of these tinier flowers get lost amid roses and lilies, traditional bouquet flowers, so it’s fun to see them getting some attention. Brides are also choosing to use flowers from their own garden instead of spending money on flowers that won’t be appreciated for more than a day.
One Last Private Dance
Traditionally, the wedding couple opens the wedding reception with a first dance to get the guests out on the dance floor. In 2023, many couples are closing their reception with a private last dance after all the guests leave. The photographer and DJ stick around to let the couple enjoy a dance at their wedding without all eyes on them. Wedding receptions go by fast. This lets the couple have some time together to talk or gossip or just enjoy each other’s company.
Locally Sourced Food and Favors
Sustainability is one trend that keeps coming up. Every year, couples are finding more ways to be sustainable. Menus that focus on local foods are a great way to support community producers while having the best-tasting items for guests. Choosing wedding favors produced locally that guests can really enjoy when they get home is another trend that will hopefully continue. Get creative with your wedding by remembering that you don’t have to be traditional. Be a trendsetter with your ideas.
The holidays are a busy time for many, so something to keep in mind if you are planning for a big event. Once you or the one you love has accepted a marriage proposal, one of the first items of business is deciding on a wedding date. There are so many things to factor in when choosing a date. Your individual and collective schedule, venue availability, convenience for others, season, and budget are just some of the details to consider. A major holiday such as Canada Day, Canadian Thanksgiving, or Christmas can present some benefits and challenges to scheduling your nuptials. Here are some things you should think about.
Making The Holidays More Special
For most people, the holidays are a time to gather with loved ones and celebrate events of great significance. Your wedding will be a celebratory affair. Combining it with a holiday will make it even more so. Holidays that are about togetherness, such as Thanksgiving and Christmas, are already a great opportunity for you to spend some quality time with your village. A wedding is all the more reason to gather.
An additional benefit is that future holidays and anniversaries will also be memorable. There will always be a connection between the sights and sounds of a particular season and your nuptials. The chance of you forgetting your anniversary is greatly reduced if it occurs on or near the holiday. Win-win!
Theme Inspirations
You’ll have to make a lot of decisions when it comes to theme, décor, colors, attire, and more. You can draw inspiration for these details from the holiday. While white is still a go-to for things such as a bridal gown or a cake, you might consider incorporating red, green, and gold if your wedding is during the Christmas season. Imagine having your reception tables inspired by the bright-red velvet of Santa’s suit. You may build your palette around orange, brown, and other autumnal colors for a fall wedding near or on Thanksgiving. Take your cues and aesthetics from holiday visuals to make your nuptials more special.
Guest Availability
One advantage of scheduling your wedding on a holiday is the availability of guests. Visitors from out of town may have to miss work and use PTO to be at your event. Many Canadians get time off of work for major holidays, freeing up their schedule for your special day. On the other hand, some guests may not be able to attend your celebration if it’s on or near a holiday. Before picking a day, think about the type of event you want to have. A Christmas wedding may not work for some families.
Travel Accommodations Holidays
It should come as no surprise that the holidays are busy times for airports, hotels, and other travel-related services. High demand for seats and rooms can drive up prices for travel and lodging, making a holiday wedding difficult for loved ones to participate in. It may also be difficult to book a block of rooms for out-of-town guests during Christmas, Thanksgiving, and certain other times of the year.
Vendors and Venues During The Holidays
Certain venues and vendors may be harder to book, as you’re competing with other weddings as well as holiday-related events put on by individuals, organizations, and businesses. For example, a caterer who would usually be available to prepare your reception menu may be booked solid by families and companies needing food for a New Year’s Day party or a Labour Day picnic. The availability of the desired venue or preferred vendors may cause you to push your ceremony to another day or year!
The Carpenters once sang “holidays are joyful,” highlighting the way something like Christmas or Halloween can put you in the mood to celebrate. Weddings are also joyous occasions, so combining your nuptials with a major holiday might seem like a no-brainer. There are advantages and challenges to combining these celebrations. Consider these carefully as you plan.
Since throwing a wedding often involves months upon months of planning, many couples experience higher levels of stress during this period. This is compounded by the fact that marriage is one of the biggest milestones a person can experience in his or her life. When it feels like a lot is riding on this decision, you may find yourself looking for all kinds of signs to help highlight whether you’re making the right choice. This is far from a modern practice, with wedding superstitions dating back as far as history allows.
While it is always best to take “old wives’ tales” with a grain of salt, it can be interesting to hear about some of the beliefs people have held over the years. Look over these superstitions and learn more about the myths that have governed marriage.
Superstitions Of No Knives, Please
Many people purchase household essentials as wedding gifts. Though a new set of cutlery seems like it would be a perfect present, this has not always been the case. Across the world, a number of cultures believe that a knife as a gift is an omen of bad fortune. The basic idea is that anything used as a tool for cutting acts as a symbol of severing the ties of the relationship. While a widespread belief, plenty of modern couples still ask for knives, scissors, and other sharp instruments on their registries.
If you’re worried about this superstition and receive a knife as a present, there is a way to counteract the bad luck. By giving the gifter a penny in exchange for the knife, you are technically purchasing the item. Many cultures believe that this small step will dispel any negativity surrounding the gift.
It Tolls for Thee
Bells are often associated with marriage. When a couple starts to get serious about dating, it is common for friends and family to ask if they “hear wedding bells.” Though it might seem like a normal part of many Christian weddings, ringing bells was once considered a way to keep bad spirits away from the couple. Beginning as a Celtic tradition in Ireland, bells would resound at the end of a ceremony in order to frighten away any supernatural entities looking to cause harm or mischief to the union.
Odd Superstitions
Nowadays, many couples will delegate the task of presenting the rings during the ceremony to either a young child in the family or a member of the wedding party. While it might seem like a small task, one superstition suggests it should only be completed by someone with a firm grip and excellent balance. According to some beliefs, dropping the rings on the way to the altar signals bad luck for the couple and the person who dropped the jewelry.
Though this superstition can be shrugged off, there are instances where dropping the rings can be problematic. Should a ring roll into a vent, between floorboards, or under a heavy piece of furniture, retrieving it might cause major delays.
The Old Switcheroo
In modern times, bridesmaids are usually the women who have a meaningful connection to the couple. However, this position actually came about due to superstition. In Ancient Rome, it was believed that a woman who was about to be married was likely to attract the attention of evil spirits. To trick the spirits, other women would be dressed in a similar fashion as the bride and would stand near her to act as decoys. While many bridesmaids complain about the dresses they’re asked to wear at weddings, most would prefer this problem to being used as lures for malicious entities.
Superstitions surrounding weddings come in all shapes and sizes. Though there is little merit to some of these beliefs, you may still feel compelled to follow them just to give yourself some peace of mind.
Have you ever thought about all the time and money involved in planning your wedding? According to one report, the average wedding with a honeymoon costs between $22,000 and $28,000 for each couple. That doesn’t count all the hours you’ve spent talking to vendors, trying on dresses and looking for the perfect decorations to show off your style and personality.
Types of Wedding Insurance
The two main types of wedding insurance are the following:
Event liability and property damage, which provides protection in case there are accidents arising from your wedding, such as a guest who gets injured or an alcohol-related accident
Event cancellation or postponement insurance, which covers nonrefundable expenses if the event is cancelled or postponed.
Some companies offer a discount when both types of insurance are purchased together.
Although many vendors require some kind of liability insurance as part of renting the facility, this insurance doesn’t protect your investment in the wedding should the worst happen. Maybe one of you gets food poisoning the night before the ceremony. Perhaps a flight gets canceled, causing you to not arrive in time to your destination wedding. It could be as simple as bad weather or an unexpected military deployment. Whether you just have to postpone the event or even cancel it, wedding insurance is a good idea to protect your money. You get back any non-recoverable deposits from hotels and suppliers as well as damages.
What Does Wedding Insurance Cover?
Each insurance company will have different policies and contracts. Generally, a wedding insurance package designed to protect you in case of cancellation covers certain things:
Damage to wedding gifts for up to 24 hours after receiving them.
Non-recoverable deposits paid to various vendors who fail to meet contractual obligations. For example, the limousine that is taking the bride and groom to the airport doesn’t show up. Insurance covers the costs of another vehicle.
Physical damage to the dress or rings, usually with limits of the damage happening within a certain time frame.
Reimbursement for pre-paid and non-recoverable costs of the honeymoon if the wedding is canceled or postponed.
Coverage to replace photographs or DVDs if these items need to be retaken. Also it can cover the cost to replace a photographer at the last minute if something happens.
Direct loss or damage to the wedding cake and flowers.
If you have expenses that arise out of trying to avoid a cancelation, for instance, you have to take a more expensive flight to get to your destination on time, your insurance would cover those charges.
Is Wedding Insurance for You?
Many people think that wedding insurance is only for high-end weddings. Of course, if you’re spending $20,000 or more on an event that’s a year away, you should protect that investment. However, insurers base insurance premiums on the limits you need to protect your investment. Just make sure to talk to your insurance provider and fully understand the limits on your coverage. Think about the risks you have with your event. If you’re worried about someone who’s been drinking at your party going out on the road, look for a “host liquor liability” policy. Or don’t have alcohol.
Wedding insurance is available up to a year before the wedding, although it does need to be purchased at least 30 days before the event. It’s a good idea to get the insurance once you’ve made the first deposit to a vendor or event planner. It might be difficult to imagine that your big day could have a hiccup, but the reality is that no one knows what’s going to happen tomorrow. It’s just wise to protect your investment with the right insurance. You’ll sleep better knowing that you won’t lose your money that has been given to different vendors.
On September 13, “The Bachelorette Canada” premieres on W Network. The American show, “The Bachelorette” has been a popular mainstay of summer television for a number of years. The premise is simple. A group of men compete for the hand of a single woman. Each week, the bachelorette narrows the field until there is just one left. The men and woman go on dates, sometimes one-on-one, sometimes as a group, to explore the local culture and get to know each other. It’s anticipated that the final date will be a proposal, but no one really knows for sure until the end. During the final episode of the U.S. version of “The Bachelorette” that just aired, one big storyline was that of the men asking the bachelorette’s dad for permission to marry his daughter.
JoJo was this season’s bachelorette. She had expected a proposal during her season on “The Bachelor,” but it was not to be. She was then given the opportunity to be the star of her own season, and viewers saw her go through many dates around the world finally narrowing her choices to Jordan and Robby. When the two men met the parents (on separate days), they each had discussions about the importance of JoJo’s family and how much JoJo wanted her parents to approve of her future husband. Robby did talk to JoJo’s father and ask his permission to ask JoJo to marry him. Jordan did not. Robby was ready to propose to JoJo, but she did not give him the opportunity. When she finally met with Jordan, the discussion revolved around how disappointed she was that he never got her father’s permission to propose to her. He made a call and talked to her father, then proposed. JoJo said yes.
Do Adults Need Parental Permission to Get Engaged?
In days past, a woman was considered the property of her father. When she married, her father would lose her work toward the household duties. She would be required to get her father’s permission to marry. For centuries, women were not allowed to own property themselves and they almost always needed a patriarchal figure. Fortunately, this has begun to change over the years, and there are no such limitations. “The Bachelorette” reminded Americans of this custom and many people wonder if a woman really needs permission to get engaged or to get married.
JoJo is an adult who was fairly established in her career and life’s path. She made it clear to Jordan that the tradition was important to her, but not because she was subject to her parents. This is a valid point. She also communicated her needs to Jordan very clearly so that he understood how much it meant to her. It seemed to be about family, not the permission. She wanted her family included in her decision.
Many women today aren’t as traditional. Family is complicated and complex. Today’s brides might have absentee dads or moms. What’s a groom to do when there isn’t a dad? What should a same-sex couple do when asking parents for permission? Which person asks permission if two women are being married? How should a groom act if the bride is much older, with children of her own or with deceased parents? How are you to know if you should ask permission before you get engaged? And, what are you going to do if the parents say no, should you ask?
The Solution?
When two people are considering marriage, it’s important to talk about what’s important to each person. Communication of your expectations is the only way to know what you should do. The tradition may seem outdated in today’s society, but it’s not necessarily about patriarchal permission. Before you take steps to propose, ask your partner about his or her thoughts. Then proceed accordingly.
From the time most girls are little, they start to plan the wedding of their dreams. It can seem as if the groom’s only job is to wait at the altar for the bride to show up. The wedding planning may be the bride’s venue, but as a groom, you can certainly get involved. This celebration commemorates the love you have for each other.
A Supportive Groom
Instead of letting one person take care of everything, both of you should be actively engaged in the planning. Here are some tips to help a groom be supportive and to have a say in what should be the most memorable day of your life.
Have opinions. Even though the details may seem minute to you, it’s important for the bride to see that you are engaged with the process. Be diplomatic when you really aren’t sure what the difference is.
Take care of your relationship through this time. You may be required to go through pre-marital counseling. Use that time as a stepping stone to build a better partnership.
Register for gifts with your bride. Use the time to learn more about her tastes and style instead of looking at it as a long shopping trip.
Help with the research of venues, caterers, or other vendors. Offer to help look for photographers or rental companies for the tuxes. Talk to friends or family members who have recently gotten married and ask them to share advice about their experience.
Go to the meetings with the vendors when you can. Not only will you share the time with your bride, but you also help take the pressure off her during planning.
Deal with your family during the planning and wedding. This may mean that you have to stand up to your mom when she inserts herself into the mix. Don’t expect your bride to mediate with your parents or siblings over wedding details. Work it out together, then make the decision known to everyone.
Be the stress relief. Take time out of your schedule to make sure you have dates with your bride that aren’t about the wedding. Make sure she has days to relax with her friends to help keep her sane. The closer the wedding gets, the more stressed she may feel. Being the helpmate before you ever get married will bring you closer together.
Don’t shirk on your responsibilities to your groomsmen. Pick out the gifts for the guys yourself. Schedule fitting times to meet with the guys, and stay on top of your own planning. If you have friends who may get out of line during the party and reception, talk to them beforehand and have a plan to deal with it.
Be appreciative. Thank the people who have been helpful in making the wedding happen. Help write thank-you notes for gifts that arrive.
Plan the honeymoon. Even though you may enjoy surprising your bride, don’t wait until the last minute to tell her where you’re going. Remember that the wedding night may not be all you expect. You both may be exhausted after the ceremony and reception, so don’t have so many expectations that it turns a positive day into a disappointing night.
Help Manage the Stress Instead of Adding to It
Every bride wants the perfect day for a wedding. You may have to be the voice of reason that reminds her that when something doesn’t go as planned, it’s okay. However, you can also do what you can to make sure things do go right. Help her check in with the vendors and wedding planner on the days before the ceremony. Ask her what you can do to help every step along the way so that you both get to the altar with less stress.
It’s hard enough to create a guest list for just adults, but dealing with kids at a wedding can be more complicated. When comes to young people, you have to decide first whether you want to and can include them at the affair. If you have space limitations, excluding children is a good place to start to keep the head count in check. If you decide to invite children, you do need to make some arrangements for them. Here are some thoughts to help you plan for children, or not, at your ceremony and reception.
Not Inviting Children
You should be prepared for people to ask you if their children are included on the invitation, even when it’s specifically addressed to just the parents. Have an answer ready, like, “no, we just can’t include children this time due to space parameters,” or “we need to limit the guest list.” If you’re allowing nieces, nephews or family members who are younger, say so. “We are only able to invite the children of our family.” It is very difficult to exclude children, but it is appropriate to only have those individuals at your wedding who you want. Just be tactful when you respond to people.
One additional note: It might be tempting to invite the kids to the ceremony only, but this isn’t recommended. Imagine how you would feel attending the service only to watch your friends or family go off to a party without you.
Inviting Children
Kids add a certain magic to a wedding because they experience it in a way adults cannot. Still, unattended children could easily turn into a black magic moment. You have to plan for kids in attendance.
Make sure you are clear about which children are invited from each family. If space isn’t an issue, then just put “and family” on the invitation. When space is an issue, you’ll need to write out each person’s name.
Dictate seating appropriately. Don’t put one adult at a table with lots of kids. Certainly reconsider placing all the children at a table without supervision. You might even consider having a designated adult or teenager, or a hired babysitter, keep an eye on things. It would be a small price to pay to maintain semblance and order while allowing parents to dance and enjoy the party too.
Talk to the caterer about offering a separate child’s meal that is simple and easy and something little ones will eat, such as chicken fingers or pizza. You might also request that the kids get served first because they won’t be as patient as adults. A sundae bar makes a great dessert option.
Keep the kids entertained. Set up a movie room or have goodie bags with crayons and color books. Place a few board games off to the side for after dinner. Provide diversions to keep everyone occupied.
Stay calm and have a sense of humor about the way the kids act. Ask your photographer to get those special moments of the kids dancing or sticking their fingers in the cake when no one’s looking. You can’t control every moment, so you might as well relax and just have fun with them.
Don’t apologize for giving your young friends the opportunity to take part in your wedding day. Children need to see these special moments to understand the world. However, you also don’t need to apologize for limiting your guest list and not allowing every child to attend. It’s your wedding and you need to make the best choices for you and your spouse. Do what needs to be done and stand firm. Just be prepared to deal with whichever option you choose to make the most of your ceremony and reception.
Decor is an essential component in a wedding. However, the decorations and floral arrangements you include are not the only thing to consider when it comes to the special details of your big day. There are some things that fall outside of the realm of both fashion and decor. Dubbed “wedding accessories” by industry experts in recent years, these are the little touches that help to connect you with your event and make it as memorable as possible on a personal scale. Use these suggestions to include the right accessories.
Decor & The Personal Items
A lot of time and energy is put into selecting the perfect wedding attire. From lavish dresses to tuxedos that look like they were plucked from an old film, couples want to look their best when walking down the aisle. However, what you wear is not solely about how you are perceived by others. The accessories you include can add a level of personal significance to your outfit. Some people include heirloom accessories or jewelry in order to feel connected to their families during this important milestone.
The accessories don’t need to be traditional accessories that are worn, either. Some couples purchase special hangers for their wedding garments in order to avoid wrinkles and creases. A personalized set of hangers can be a cute little feature that helps you feel excited for this new chapter in your life.
The Guest Book
The guest book at your wedding is another item that falls outside of the traditional decor category and more into the realm of accessories. Though many opt for an actual book for guests to sign, there are endless ways to get creative. Including an old typewriter and a long sheet of paper is a neat alternative that allows guests the chance to type out their messages of luck and love. A video guest book is also a popular option, with people recording their messages in a “confessional” style made popular on reality television.
The Party Members
Giving the members of your wedding party fun accessories can also be a great way to add another dimension of style to your event. If you have a ring bearer and flower girl, then consider hanging little signs on them with humorous messages. A flower girl with a sign that reads “follow the petals, follow the love” or a similar phrase can get guests to deliver some audible “awws” from the very start.
Similarly, you might want to give accessories to all of your bridesmaids or groomsmen as a way of thanking them for being involved. Though few people will actually see this accessory, custom socks can be a fantastic gift. Whether you personalize each pair to the person or order bulk socks with the same message, the people in your party will definitely want to wear them during the event.
The Little Touches With Decor
Plenty of couples have wedding themes these days. Whether your event is rustic, modern, or classic, be sure that any accessories you include in your big day complement the overall aesthetic. If you’re having a wedding meant to invoke the roaring parties of the 1920s, consider placement cards that boast a bold and vintage font that perfectly captures the bygone era. This is your chance to be as creative as possible, so think outside the box and find fun ways to put finishing touches on your wedding’s look.
Though the term itself is something of a new concept, wedding accessories have long been a part of the planning process. Before you finish putting together the details of your big day, think about how a couple of small accessories can help to add a delicious level of personal texture to the experience.
Can you name a Canadian wedding tradition off top of your head? Over the years, countless wedding traditions have come and gone. One of the biggest challenges you may face while planning your nuptials is knowing which practices to include. For many couples, incorporating local or historical rituals can be a perfect way to feel connected to your heritage. Take a moment to review these classic Canadian wedding traditions and see which might be a perfect fit for your upcoming celebrations.
Taking Time for Tea
If you’re planning on having a smaller guest list for your wedding, you may be looking for a way to include friends and associates who didn’t make the cut. One option to consider is the tradition of hosting a trousseau tea gathering. Essentially, this is a small party held a few days before the wedding where neighbors, coworkers, and anyone not invited to the official event can come together to celebrate the couple. Instead of serving a full meal, guests are treated to tea, baked goods, and other small snacks. This is a lovely way to make everyone feel included.
Dancing in Silly Socks
In Ontario, one French-Canadian ritual that has remained consistently popular at weddings over the years is the sock dance. Originally, this tradition involved the unwed older siblings of the bride and groom. During the reception, the brothers and sisters would take to the dance floor and don silly knee-high socks. The siblings would then dance for the guests, who would throw money at their feet. The siblings would then collect the money and deliver it to the happy couple. Nowadays, it is common for both married and unwed siblings to take part in this fun and entertaining tradition.
Creating a Convoy
Another French-Canadian tradition to consider for your big day is the wedding train. On the morning of the wedding, the family members and close friends of the couple gather together and create a convoy of cars. The group then drives their vehicles around the neighborhood where the couple is getting ready and makes as much noise as possible by honking their horns and shouting out the windows. The idea is to create an air of celebration to let everyone know that the wedding day has arrived. The noisy convoy will then travel from the neighborhood to the wedding venue.
Raising Funds
Throwing a wedding can easily cost a small fortune. One way that Canadian couples handle their event expenses is by hosting a fundraising social. This classic tradition is often referred to as a stag and doe party and is a way for the couple to raise money for their nuptials. Guests will purchase tickets to the party and be given food, drink, and entertainment. Anyone can buy a ticket, meaning the event is not limited to only those who will be invited to the official wedding. Some couples will even auction off exciting prizes to raise additional funds.
An Old Tradition of Putting a Penny in the Shoe
Plenty of older wedding traditions trace their origins back to the idea of encouraging good luck or warding off evil spirits. One popular custom that follows this concept is for the bride to put a penny in her shoe on the day of her wedding. By doing this, the bride is encouraging a future of prosperity and happiness with her partner. In recent years, this practice has not been limited to the bride. Anyone who is looking to bestow good energy and wealth upon the couple can add a coin to their own shoes.
Finding the Best Tradition for Your Wedding
Incorporating the right wedding traditions into your big day can be both a fun and challenging process. By looking at local traditions, you can guarantee your heritage is a foundational part of the event. Take your time to learn more about different Canadian customs and see which classic rituals are worth including in your celebrations.
With wedding costs rising as each year goes by, a DIY wedding seems more and more appealing. Thus, making sense that couples everywhere have taken an interest in the do-it-yourself approach to planning. The concept is simple: Instead of hiring professionals to take on challenges like decorating and creating floral arrangements, you will handle the details yourself. The goal of this option is to save money and take more control over the finished look of the event. Naturally, this is not always the easiest way to plan. To see success, look over these foundational elements of the process.
Start With Inspiration
Beginning the DIY process from scratch can be overwhelming. When you’re looking at a blank slate, you may feel nothing but stress and anxiety. Even creative people struggle to come up with good ideas when pressed. Thankfully, the solution is as easy as finding inspiration. Whether you create a mood board or casually browse blogs and Pinterest accounts, looking at images that invoke ideas can be a lifesaver. Inspiration can come from all kinds of places, so don’t limit yourself to only wedding-themed outlets.
Review the Practical Details For Your DIY
Looking at pretty pictures is only the start of the DIY process. To see results, you must also review the practical side of things. An idea might look beautiful in a picture and be incredibly difficult to execute. Looking at information like the materials required, time involved, and effort needed to complete each project can make a world of difference in devising a strategy. The biggest mistake people make when exploring DIY options is assuming a task will be easy and discovering too late that it is far more involved.
Source Materials
Understanding the practical side of the process also includes developing a better understanding of the materials involved. If you’ve decided to make your own invitations, for example, then you should start looking at how much it will cost you to source the cardstock and envelopes you’ll need. You should also factor in additional materials like stamps, ink, and whatever else might be needed. Failing to consider the costs of all supplies can throw off your budget, so be as realistic as you can when coming up with numbers.
Get Help
The truth about DIY tasks is that you and your partner will usually not be able to complete most projects on your own. In fact, you’ll benefit from as much manpower as possible. Before you set any of your projects in stone, reach out to close friends and family members to see if anyone is willing to lend a hand. By having access to help, you’ll be able to come up with a timeline of exactly how long it will take to complete everything you’re setting your sights on. Should you be unable to find people willing to assist, adjust your plan accordingly.
Mix and Match DIY
An entirely DIY event is not an easy feat to pull off. The best way to see success is by mixing and matching the do-it-yourself approach with more traditional methods. For some people, this means letting a professional handle floral arrangements while taking on the task of selecting unique vases as centerpieces. At the end of the day, DIY approaches are meant to make your life easier. For whatever is too difficult to handle by yourself, hire an expert to handle the job.
The DIY wedding can be a fantastic way to take more control over the look and feel of your event while saving some change along the road. Naturally, opting to do certain tasks yourself is not as simple as most people would prefer. Thankfully, as long as you put thought into your plan, you’ll have an easier time using this approach to the fullest.
Wedding traditions are constantly evolving to match modern couples’ ideas. The white wedding dress didn’t become a trend until 1840 when Queen Victoria married Prince Albert. Brides in the 1920s wore a hat as part of their wedding attire. The pandemic gave us micro-weddings that are more intimate, which is a trend expected to stick around. Here are some trends to watch for 2025 weddings that you can incorporate into your celebration.
Guest Books Go Digital
Guest books can be impersonal and often don’t get looked at after the wedding. There have been some changes in guest books over the past few years, and now many guests can write a sweet note to the wedding couple instead of just signing their name. Today’s couples are getting creative with their guest books. Guests could sign a piece of fabric that will be sewn into a quilt as a reminder of the wedding. Voice messages recorded at the wedding are another great idea that is a little more modern. Maybe you could give your guests a place to record a TikTok greeting for your wedding, or you could ask all guests to take a picture in a photo booth for the record; one copy goes to the wedding couple, and the guest can take another copy home. Get creative.
Invites Also Go Digital trends
Digital invites are eco-friendly and easier to deliver in today’s technical landscape. You may want to print a few invitations for the more traditional guests and for yourself. Still, you can use digital info to give guests more information about accessibility, accommodations and detailed notes about your wedding to avoid having to print out pages and pages of stuff everyone needs to know.
Colorful Wedding Dresses
Wedding dresses don’t have to be all white in upcoming weddings. Wedding dresses of all colors are hitting the runway, with baby blue and pastel pink as two of the most popular colors. Floral prints with a white background are also making their mark in modern weddings. Be bold and do you with color for your big day.
Small Bouquets
Dainty and delicate flowers, like lily of the valley, lavender and violets, are taking the stage for small and elegant floral bouquets. This lets the bride and her dress stand out at the altar, without having the maid of honor needing an extra hand to manage a big bouquet. Many of these tinier flowers get lost amid roses and lilies, traditional bouquet flowers, so it’s fun to see them getting some attention. Brides are also choosing to use flowers from their own garden instead of spending money on flowers that won’t be appreciated for more than a day.
One Last Private Dance
Traditionally, the wedding couple opens the wedding reception with a first dance to get the guests out on the dance floor. In 2023, many couples are closing their reception with a private last dance after all the guests leave. The photographer and DJ stick around to let the couple enjoy a dance at their wedding without all eyes on them. Wedding receptions go by fast. This lets the couple have some time together to talk or gossip or just enjoy each other’s company.
Locally Sourced Food and Favors
Sustainability is one trend that keeps coming up. Every year, couples are finding more ways to be sustainable. Menus that focus on local foods are a great way to support community producers while having the best-tasting items for guests. Choosing wedding favors produced locally that guests can really enjoy when they get home is another trend that will hopefully continue. Get creative with your wedding by remembering that you don’t have to be traditional. Be a trendsetter with your ideas.
The holidays are a busy time for many, so something to keep in mind if you are planning for a big event. Once you or the one you love has accepted a marriage proposal, one of the first items of business is deciding on a wedding date. There are so many things to factor in when choosing a date. Your individual and collective schedule, venue availability, convenience for others, season, and budget are just some of the details to consider. A major holiday such as Canada Day, Canadian Thanksgiving, or Christmas can present some benefits and challenges to scheduling your nuptials. Here are some things you should think about.
Making The Holidays More Special
For most people, the holidays are a time to gather with loved ones and celebrate events of great significance. Your wedding will be a celebratory affair. Combining it with a holiday will make it even more so. Holidays that are about togetherness, such as Thanksgiving and Christmas, are already a great opportunity for you to spend some quality time with your village. A wedding is all the more reason to gather.
An additional benefit is that future holidays and anniversaries will also be memorable. There will always be a connection between the sights and sounds of a particular season and your nuptials. The chance of you forgetting your anniversary is greatly reduced if it occurs on or near the holiday. Win-win!
Theme Inspirations
You’ll have to make a lot of decisions when it comes to theme, décor, colors, attire, and more. You can draw inspiration for these details from the holiday. While white is still a go-to for things such as a bridal gown or a cake, you might consider incorporating red, green, and gold if your wedding is during the Christmas season. Imagine having your reception tables inspired by the bright-red velvet of Santa’s suit. You may build your palette around orange, brown, and other autumnal colors for a fall wedding near or on Thanksgiving. Take your cues and aesthetics from holiday visuals to make your nuptials more special.
Guest Availability
One advantage of scheduling your wedding on a holiday is the availability of guests. Visitors from out of town may have to miss work and use PTO to be at your event. Many Canadians get time off of work for major holidays, freeing up their schedule for your special day. On the other hand, some guests may not be able to attend your celebration if it’s on or near a holiday. Before picking a day, think about the type of event you want to have. A Christmas wedding may not work for some families.
Travel Accommodations Holidays
It should come as no surprise that the holidays are busy times for airports, hotels, and other travel-related services. High demand for seats and rooms can drive up prices for travel and lodging, making a holiday wedding difficult for loved ones to participate in. It may also be difficult to book a block of rooms for out-of-town guests during Christmas, Thanksgiving, and certain other times of the year.
Vendors and Venues During The Holidays
Certain venues and vendors may be harder to book, as you’re competing with other weddings as well as holiday-related events put on by individuals, organizations, and businesses. For example, a caterer who would usually be available to prepare your reception menu may be booked solid by families and companies needing food for a New Year’s Day party or a Labour Day picnic. The availability of the desired venue or preferred vendors may cause you to push your ceremony to another day or year!
The Carpenters once sang “holidays are joyful,” highlighting the way something like Christmas or Halloween can put you in the mood to celebrate. Weddings are also joyous occasions, so combining your nuptials with a major holiday might seem like a no-brainer. There are advantages and challenges to combining these celebrations. Consider these carefully as you plan.
Since throwing a wedding often involves months upon months of planning, many couples experience higher levels of stress during this period. This is compounded by the fact that marriage is one of the biggest milestones a person can experience in his or her life. When it feels like a lot is riding on this decision, you may find yourself looking for all kinds of signs to help highlight whether you’re making the right choice. This is far from a modern practice, with wedding superstitions dating back as far as history allows.
While it is always best to take “old wives’ tales” with a grain of salt, it can be interesting to hear about some of the beliefs people have held over the years. Look over these superstitions and learn more about the myths that have governed marriage.
Superstitions Of No Knives, Please
Many people purchase household essentials as wedding gifts. Though a new set of cutlery seems like it would be a perfect present, this has not always been the case. Across the world, a number of cultures believe that a knife as a gift is an omen of bad fortune. The basic idea is that anything used as a tool for cutting acts as a symbol of severing the ties of the relationship. While a widespread belief, plenty of modern couples still ask for knives, scissors, and other sharp instruments on their registries.
If you’re worried about this superstition and receive a knife as a present, there is a way to counteract the bad luck. By giving the gifter a penny in exchange for the knife, you are technically purchasing the item. Many cultures believe that this small step will dispel any negativity surrounding the gift.
It Tolls for Thee
Bells are often associated with marriage. When a couple starts to get serious about dating, it is common for friends and family to ask if they “hear wedding bells.” Though it might seem like a normal part of many Christian weddings, ringing bells was once considered a way to keep bad spirits away from the couple. Beginning as a Celtic tradition in Ireland, bells would resound at the end of a ceremony in order to frighten away any supernatural entities looking to cause harm or mischief to the union.
Odd Superstitions
Nowadays, many couples will delegate the task of presenting the rings during the ceremony to either a young child in the family or a member of the wedding party. While it might seem like a small task, one superstition suggests it should only be completed by someone with a firm grip and excellent balance. According to some beliefs, dropping the rings on the way to the altar signals bad luck for the couple and the person who dropped the jewelry.
Though this superstition can be shrugged off, there are instances where dropping the rings can be problematic. Should a ring roll into a vent, between floorboards, or under a heavy piece of furniture, retrieving it might cause major delays.
The Old Switcheroo
In modern times, bridesmaids are usually the women who have a meaningful connection to the couple. However, this position actually came about due to superstition. In Ancient Rome, it was believed that a woman who was about to be married was likely to attract the attention of evil spirits. To trick the spirits, other women would be dressed in a similar fashion as the bride and would stand near her to act as decoys. While many bridesmaids complain about the dresses they’re asked to wear at weddings, most would prefer this problem to being used as lures for malicious entities.
Superstitions surrounding weddings come in all shapes and sizes. Though there is little merit to some of these beliefs, you may still feel compelled to follow them just to give yourself some peace of mind.
