Sometimes, role models come from the least expected places. In 1940, in a small village in Kenya, over 12,000 km from Toronto, a young girl was born to a farmer and his wife. She was named Wangari Muta Maathai. When she was a young girl, her family separated in order to send her and her brothers to school. Her dad lived on a farm where he found work, and her mom lived near the school. Later, Wangari would go to a Catholic high school in Limuru. Through a strange twist of fate and politics, she received a scholarship to study at a college in Kansas, where she earned a Bachelor of Science. From there, she went to the University of Pittsburgh (Pennsylvania) where she would earn a master’s degree in biology. It was here she was introduced to environmental restoration. When Wangari completed her degree, she returned to Kenya, believing she had an appointment as a research assistant at the University College of Nairobi.
When she went to her new job, she discovered the position had been given to someone else. Wangari suspectd gender or tribal bias. She found another position, then went on to earn a Ph.D. at a European university. In the mid-1970s, she would become the first woman in Nairobi appointed as chair of a department and as an associate professor. It was during this time of campaigning for equal benefits for women on the staff that she became involved in civic organizations. Through her work and research, she determined that many of Kenya’s problems stemmed from environmental degradation.
The Green Belt Movement
Wangari encouraged women in Kenya to plant tree nurseries. Each seedling that was later planted in another location provided a small stipend to the woman who grew the tree. This program started out as “Save the Land Harambee,” but changed name to the Green Belt Movement. This movement encouraged women to work together to restore the trees, which provided fuel and firewood and stopped soil erosion. At a time when unemployment was rising, every dollar counted in the family and community.
The Green Belt Movement encouraged education, not only in environmental issues, but civic issues too. The leaders of the movement advocated for accountability from national leaders in Kenya. Wangari had faced political opposition before she ever started Green Belt, but following the organization of her efforts, the Kenyan government opposed her efforts and attempted to prevent her from registering voters. Her own government called her “a crazy woman,” but she continued to fight for environmental and civic rights in Kenya. She earned multiple international awards for her work with Kenyan women, but her own government arrested her. She was targeted for assassination, but she never lost sight of her cause.
In 2004, she was awarded a Nobel Peace Prize “for her contribution to sustainable development, democracy and peace.” It was the first time an African woman won the prize, and she was the first environmentalist to earn the title. Until her death in 2011, she continued her work in government, sustainability, and peace.
The Green Belt Movement goes on under new leadership. In 2014, over 430,000 trees were planted in communities in Kenya. Stable communities create stable governments, which is why its work is so important to the country. Green Belt’s efforts now include sustainable energy and clean water. Wangari believed that a “values-based society was a prerequisite for prosperity and that empowering women was a key to breaking the cycle of poverty.”
Wangari is a role model for everyone. If you can find a copy of “Unbowed: A Memoir,” it’s a book worth picking up to see how this woman from a small village went on to become a recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize.
The United Nations has designated October 17 as the International Day for the Eradication of Poverty. According to Globalissues.org, over three billion people, or half of the world’s population, live on less than $3.29CAD per day. In Canada, according to the Standing Committee on Human Resources, about 14 percent of the population have what is called “low income.” That means they make less than half of the median income, but the group is not truly labeled poor. Lack of income is just one way of measuring poverty. Because Canada is one of the wealthiest countries in the world, we shouldn’t have almost five million people living without food or housing.
Although organizations measure poverty differently, it is agreed that certain subsets of Canadians are worse off than others. Aboriginal Canadians tend to make about 30 percent less than the rest of the population. Immigrants, seniors and those with disabilities are also at a higher risk of being affected by poverty. UNICEF measures child poverty, even in rich nations. Canada has 13.3 percent of its children living in poverty, compared to the average 11 percent in the other 35 economically advanced countries.
How Are You Affected By Poverty?
You may have a roof over your head and food in your refrigerator and get regular health care. However, poverty is a significant burden on the economy. It’s estimated that poverty costs Ontario about 6 percent of its Gross Domestic Product each year. Those who live in poverty have higher health care expenses, because their health is exacerbated by not having their basic needs met. Poverty shortens a person’s life by about 21 years. About 200,000 Canadians experience homelessness each year, and the figures are increasing due to the rising costs of housing and rising debt levels.
Personally, you may not ever experience poverty or have a reason to be concerned about knowing where your next meal is coming from. That’s not the reality for many of your neighbors. Whether or not you know these people, you should be aware of the effects of poverty on your community and the country. It takes more resources to help those individuals. Students who don’t have enough don’t learn effectively. Men and women who don’t have a home often don’t have a job. It hurts everyone when those people have to be supported.
A Plan to Reduce Poverty
In 2016, the Standing Committee on Human Resources developed a National Anti-Poverty Plan that recommends how poverty can be eradicated in our country. It’s been argued that investing in reducing child poverty has a huge return on future spending by the government in social assistance, criminal justice and the health system. This plan is comprehensive and considerate. It is guided by human rights, ensuring that those in need have dignity in getting assistance. It includes:
Early childhood education and care that is publicly funded
Investment for indigenous education and economic development
Improvements to the Old Age Security and Guaranteed Income Supplement programs to lift seniors out of poverty
Development of a policy concerning right to food
Improving the nutritional programs in the country
Implementing a national pharmacy program for prescription drug care for everyone
Federal minimum wage increases
Many organizations will be pushing the government to make steps in reducing poverty in Canada. The plan has been released but not accepted by Parliament. Join the Twitter or Facebook feed of Citizens for Public Justice to follow its progress and to learn how you can help. It’s going to take each of us to work together to make a difference in the lives of all. “It is never acceptable for a rich country to do nothing about poverty, and now is certainly not the time,” said Leilani Farha, Canada Without Poverty’s Executive Director. “The rights of 4.8 million people are being violated and yet the Federal Government hardly seems concerned. Our plan lays out the framework for a successful national anti-poverty plan.”
Have you ever thought about all the time and money involved in planning your wedding? According to one report, the average wedding with a honeymoon costs between $22,000 and $28,000 for each couple. That doesn’t count all the hours you’ve spent talking to vendors, trying on dresses and looking for the perfect decorations to show off your style and personality.
Types of Wedding Insurance
The two main types of wedding insurance are the following:
Event liability and property damage, which provides protection in case there are accidents arising from your wedding, such as a guest who gets injured or an alcohol-related accident
Event cancellation or postponement insurance, which covers nonrefundable expenses if the event is cancelled or postponed.
Some companies offer a discount when both types of insurance are purchased together.
Although many vendors require some kind of liability insurance as part of renting the facility, this insurance doesn’t protect your investment in the wedding should the worst happen. Maybe one of you gets food poisoning the night before the ceremony. Perhaps a flight gets canceled, causing you to not arrive in time to your destination wedding. It could be as simple as bad weather or an unexpected military deployment. Whether you just have to postpone the event or even cancel it, wedding insurance is a good idea to protect your money. You get back any non-recoverable deposits from hotels and suppliers as well as damages.
What Does Wedding Insurance Cover?
Each insurance company will have different policies and contracts. Generally, a wedding insurance package designed to protect you in case of cancellation covers certain things:
Damage to wedding gifts for up to 24 hours after receiving them.
Non-recoverable deposits paid to various vendors who fail to meet contractual obligations. For example, the limousine that is taking the bride and groom to the airport doesn’t show up. Insurance covers the costs of another vehicle.
Physical damage to the dress or rings, usually with limits of the damage happening within a certain time frame.
Reimbursement for pre-paid and non-recoverable costs of the honeymoon if the wedding is canceled or postponed.
Coverage to replace photographs or DVDs if these items need to be retaken. Also it can cover the cost to replace a photographer at the last minute if something happens.
Direct loss or damage to the wedding cake and flowers.
If you have expenses that arise out of trying to avoid a cancelation, for instance, you have to take a more expensive flight to get to your destination on time, your insurance would cover those charges.
Is Wedding Insurance for You?
Many people think that wedding insurance is only for high-end weddings. Of course, if you’re spending $20,000 or more on an event that’s a year away, you should protect that investment. However, insurers base insurance premiums on the limits you need to protect your investment. Just make sure to talk to your insurance provider and fully understand the limits on your coverage. Think about the risks you have with your event. If you’re worried about someone who’s been drinking at your party going out on the road, look for a “host liquor liability” policy. Or don’t have alcohol.
Wedding insurance is available up to a year before the wedding, although it does need to be purchased at least 30 days before the event. It’s a good idea to get the insurance once you’ve made the first deposit to a vendor or event planner. It might be difficult to imagine that your big day could have a hiccup, but the reality is that no one knows what’s going to happen tomorrow. It’s just wise to protect your investment with the right insurance. You’ll sleep better knowing that you won’t lose your money that has been given to different vendors.
Summer might be half over, but there is still plenty of travel time before the snow flies to visit some great sites in our country. Let’s take a look at some of the most interesting places to see to learn more about other faiths and to experience the peace and power of the past.
Basilica of Sainte-Anne-de-Beaupré, Quebec
The peak season to make a pilgrimage to this stunning basilica along the Saint Lawrence River is July 26, the feast of St. Anne, who is the patron saint of Quebec. Many believe St. Anne intercedes for the pious to obtain miracles. Building began on the present-day basilica in 1926 and was finished in 1946, but the land where the building sits was donated to the Catholic Church in 1658. The building is not only home to the Catholic Church, it’s also a beautiful piece of architecture. Over half a million people come to the basilica annually.
Saint Joseph’s Oratory, Montreal
Saint Joseph’s Oratory is a minor basilica, but it is the largest church in Canada. Construction began on a small chapel in 1904. In 1924, construction started on the basilica, but this was not completed until 1967. The dome of the basilica is the third-largest in the world. About two million visitors come to the basilica each year. On the 100th anniversary of the Oratory, it was designated as a National Historic Site of Canada.
Petroglyphs Provincial Park, Woodview, Ontario
The Park is another National Historic Site, designated as the largest collection of First Nation rock carvings in Ontario. The glyphs are an important part of the history, but the rock site is a sacred place to the local Ojibwe people. The visitor center offers a great deal of information about the site and has a children’s hands-on activity room and a movie about the site. You won’t be allowed to photograph or videotape the rock carvings out of respect for the spirituality of the site.
Valley of the Ten Peaks, Banff National Park, Alberta
When you think of crystal-clear water, you might think of the Caribbean. But there’s a site right in this great country that features a crystal-clear blue-green lake surrounded by ten mountains giving you beautiful scenes and a calm atmosphere. The secluded valley is thought to be the home of the Nakoda, who are also known as the Stoney Indians. Although the mountains have been given individual names, at one time they were simply known by the numbers one through 10.
Majorville Medicine Wheel, South Alberta
A medicine wheel is a stone circle built by the First Nation tribes. Sites containing them are thought to have religious, astronomical and calendrical significance for the tribes. The one at Majorville features one of the most complex designs for a site of this nature. The aesthetic value is preserved because it overlooks an undisturbed native prairie. There are many other medicine wheels to visit in Canada. Saskatchewan boasts three:
Roy Rivers medicine wheel
Turtle medicine wheel
Tipperary Creek medicine wheel
Martyrs’ Shrine, Ontario
The Canadian Jesuit Martyrs’ Shrine is consecrated to the memory of Canadian and Jesuit martyrs, including Isaac Jogues (1607-1646), who was captured by the Iroquois, tortured and lost his fingers before being made a slave. He escaped and went to France, then returned to Canada to be a missionary. He was martyred at the age of 39. The shrine was consecrated in 1926. It’s only open through the summer season, because it was not built with insulation. There are a number of guided walking tours throughout the grounds to explore the monuments that have been erected.
You don’t have to be Catholic or a native First Nations people to visit one of these beautiful sites and experience the spirituality associated with the location. Take some time to see what’s in our great nation.
On September 13, “The Bachelorette Canada” premieres on W Network. The American show, “The Bachelorette” has been a popular mainstay of summer television for a number of years. The premise is simple. A group of men compete for the hand of a single woman. Each week, the bachelorette narrows the field until there is just one left. The men and woman go on dates, sometimes one-on-one, sometimes as a group, to explore the local culture and get to know each other. It’s anticipated that the final date will be a proposal, but no one really knows for sure until the end. During the final episode of the U.S. version of “The Bachelorette” that just aired, one big storyline was that of the men asking the bachelorette’s dad for permission to marry his daughter.
JoJo was this season’s bachelorette. She had expected a proposal during her season on “The Bachelor,” but it was not to be. She was then given the opportunity to be the star of her own season, and viewers saw her go through many dates around the world finally narrowing her choices to Jordan and Robby. When the two men met the parents (on separate days), they each had discussions about the importance of JoJo’s family and how much JoJo wanted her parents to approve of her future husband. Robby did talk to JoJo’s father and ask his permission to ask JoJo to marry him. Jordan did not. Robby was ready to propose to JoJo, but she did not give him the opportunity. When she finally met with Jordan, the discussion revolved around how disappointed she was that he never got her father’s permission to propose to her. He made a call and talked to her father, then proposed. JoJo said yes.
Do Adults Need Parental Permission to Get Engaged?
In days past, a woman was considered the property of her father. When she married, her father would lose her work toward the household duties. She would be required to get her father’s permission to marry. For centuries, women were not allowed to own property themselves and they almost always needed a patriarchal figure. Fortunately, this has begun to change over the years, and there are no such limitations. “The Bachelorette” reminded Americans of this custom and many people wonder if a woman really needs permission to get engaged or to get married.
JoJo is an adult who was fairly established in her career and life’s path. She made it clear to Jordan that the tradition was important to her, but not because she was subject to her parents. This is a valid point. She also communicated her needs to Jordan very clearly so that he understood how much it meant to her. It seemed to be about family, not the permission. She wanted her family included in her decision.
Many women today aren’t as traditional. Family is complicated and complex. Today’s brides might have absentee dads or moms. What’s a groom to do when there isn’t a dad? What should a same-sex couple do when asking parents for permission? Which person asks permission if two women are being married? How should a groom act if the bride is much older, with children of her own or with deceased parents? How are you to know if you should ask permission before you get engaged? And, what are you going to do if the parents say no, should you ask?
The Solution?
When two people are considering marriage, it’s important to talk about what’s important to each person. Communication of your expectations is the only way to know what you should do. The tradition may seem outdated in today’s society, but it’s not necessarily about patriarchal permission. Before you take steps to propose, ask your partner about his or her thoughts. Then proceed accordingly.
For some engaged or newly married Canadians, life’s journey will take them south of the border on a more permanent basis. Employment opportunities, enterprise, education or even the union itself may mean a move to the United States. Thousands of Canadians leave the Great White North each year to parts south. Almost 2% of the 42 million immigrants within the US hail from the nation whose name descends from the St. Lawrence Iroquoian word Kanata, which translates to “village” or “sentiment.” While the two nations share the world’s longest border and other cultural elements, there’s a lot that you might not know about life in the States. Here are some things you should do before and right after you move.
Deciding Where To Live In The U.S.
The United States is the world’s third-most-populous nation behind China and India. It’s also the third in size by total area. It’s a place that has diverse regions in terms of climate and culture. You shouldn’t assume that you know what a place is like based on media and literature. The largest city, New York City, is itself a collection of various neighborhoods with various influences and personalities. If work and education are bringing you south of the border, the location may dictate your choices. Canada is a place that is intimately familiar with very cold temperatures in the winter. Parts of the Southern and Western United States have mild winters and extremely hot summers. The cost of living varies greatly from place to place. Keep all these in mind as you plan.
Applying for a Social Security Number
A social security number (SSN) is a nine-digit number assigned to citizens, permanent residents and temporary workers by the Social Security Administration, an agency of the federal government. This number acts sort of as a national ID for taxation and other purposes. Often various records for credit, education, health care and employment are sorted and indexed using the SSN. You will need an SSN to do the following:
Open an account with a financial institution
Complete a tax return
Apply for a driver’s license
Apply for a federal loan
Secure some types of public assistance
Opening a Bank Account In The U.S.
Having a checking account with a US bank is convenient for depositing paychecks and withdrawing money to pay bills and make purchases. Once you have your SSN and a mailing address, you’ll need to pick a bank or credit union for your money. Think about the type of personal banking features you’ll need, such as debit cards, automatic teller machines, branch locations and online access. You should go with an institution that has locations and amenities that are convenient to your lifestyle.
Establishing Credit
Building credit in the United States is an important part of putting down roots. If you want to finance a home or car purchase, lenders will look at your credit history to see how likely you are to repay your debts in full. If you want to rent an apartment, open an account with a utility provider or even work for some companies, your credit history will be reviewed. Having Canadian credit may not be enough for you to do all the things you need to do. Consider applying for a secured or prepaid credit card to start building a borrowing history stateside. By paying your balance on time each month, you’ll slowly build good credit to be eligible for the most favorable loan terms and conditions.
Starting a new phase of life in a new place can be very exciting, especially in the United States. There is much to offer, but it’s important to attend to a few matters as soon as possible. Think carefully about the life that you and your partner want to have and plan accordingly.
From the time most girls are little, they start to plan the wedding of their dreams. It can seem as if the groom’s only job is to wait at the altar for the bride to show up. The wedding planning may be the bride’s venue, but as a groom, you can certainly get involved. This celebration commemorates the love you have for each other.
A Supportive Groom
Instead of letting one person take care of everything, both of you should be actively engaged in the planning. Here are some tips to help a groom be supportive and to have a say in what should be the most memorable day of your life.
Have opinions. Even though the details may seem minute to you, it’s important for the bride to see that you are engaged with the process. Be diplomatic when you really aren’t sure what the difference is.
Take care of your relationship through this time. You may be required to go through pre-marital counseling. Use that time as a stepping stone to build a better partnership.
Register for gifts with your bride. Use the time to learn more about her tastes and style instead of looking at it as a long shopping trip.
Help with the research of venues, caterers, or other vendors. Offer to help look for photographers or rental companies for the tuxes. Talk to friends or family members who have recently gotten married and ask them to share advice about their experience.
Go to the meetings with the vendors when you can. Not only will you share the time with your bride, but you also help take the pressure off her during planning.
Deal with your family during the planning and wedding. This may mean that you have to stand up to your mom when she inserts herself into the mix. Don’t expect your bride to mediate with your parents or siblings over wedding details. Work it out together, then make the decision known to everyone.
Be the stress relief. Take time out of your schedule to make sure you have dates with your bride that aren’t about the wedding. Make sure she has days to relax with her friends to help keep her sane. The closer the wedding gets, the more stressed she may feel. Being the helpmate before you ever get married will bring you closer together.
Don’t shirk on your responsibilities to your groomsmen. Pick out the gifts for the guys yourself. Schedule fitting times to meet with the guys, and stay on top of your own planning. If you have friends who may get out of line during the party and reception, talk to them beforehand and have a plan to deal with it.
Be appreciative. Thank the people who have been helpful in making the wedding happen. Help write thank-you notes for gifts that arrive.
Plan the honeymoon. Even though you may enjoy surprising your bride, don’t wait until the last minute to tell her where you’re going. Remember that the wedding night may not be all you expect. You both may be exhausted after the ceremony and reception, so don’t have so many expectations that it turns a positive day into a disappointing night.
Help Manage the Stress Instead of Adding to It
Every bride wants the perfect day for a wedding. You may have to be the voice of reason that reminds her that when something doesn’t go as planned, it’s okay. However, you can also do what you can to make sure things do go right. Help her check in with the vendors and wedding planner on the days before the ceremony. Ask her what you can do to help every step along the way so that you both get to the altar with less stress.
It’s hard enough to create a guest list for just adults, but dealing with kids at a wedding can be more complicated. When comes to young people, you have to decide first whether you want to and can include them at the affair. If you have space limitations, excluding children is a good place to start to keep the head count in check. If you decide to invite children, you do need to make some arrangements for them. Here are some thoughts to help you plan for children, or not, at your ceremony and reception.
Not Inviting Children
You should be prepared for people to ask you if their children are included on the invitation, even when it’s specifically addressed to just the parents. Have an answer ready, like, “no, we just can’t include children this time due to space parameters,” or “we need to limit the guest list.” If you’re allowing nieces, nephews or family members who are younger, say so. “We are only able to invite the children of our family.” It is very difficult to exclude children, but it is appropriate to only have those individuals at your wedding who you want. Just be tactful when you respond to people.
One additional note: It might be tempting to invite the kids to the ceremony only, but this isn’t recommended. Imagine how you would feel attending the service only to watch your friends or family go off to a party without you.
Inviting Children
Kids add a certain magic to a wedding because they experience it in a way adults cannot. Still, unattended children could easily turn into a black magic moment. You have to plan for kids in attendance.
Make sure you are clear about which children are invited from each family. If space isn’t an issue, then just put “and family” on the invitation. When space is an issue, you’ll need to write out each person’s name.
Dictate seating appropriately. Don’t put one adult at a table with lots of kids. Certainly reconsider placing all the children at a table without supervision. You might even consider having a designated adult or teenager, or a hired babysitter, keep an eye on things. It would be a small price to pay to maintain semblance and order while allowing parents to dance and enjoy the party too.
Talk to the caterer about offering a separate child’s meal that is simple and easy and something little ones will eat, such as chicken fingers or pizza. You might also request that the kids get served first because they won’t be as patient as adults. A sundae bar makes a great dessert option.
Keep the kids entertained. Set up a movie room or have goodie bags with crayons and color books. Place a few board games off to the side for after dinner. Provide diversions to keep everyone occupied.
Stay calm and have a sense of humor about the way the kids act. Ask your photographer to get those special moments of the kids dancing or sticking their fingers in the cake when no one’s looking. You can’t control every moment, so you might as well relax and just have fun with them.
Don’t apologize for giving your young friends the opportunity to take part in your wedding day. Children need to see these special moments to understand the world. However, you also don’t need to apologize for limiting your guest list and not allowing every child to attend. It’s your wedding and you need to make the best choices for you and your spouse. Do what needs to be done and stand firm. Just be prepared to deal with whichever option you choose to make the most of your ceremony and reception.
There are a number of scriptures in the Bible that discuss baptism. John the Baptist actually baptized Jesus, even though he believed he was unworthy to perform the ritual for Christ. In many Christian churches, baptism is one of the sacraments. It’s taken very seriously, even though it is a very joyous occasion.
Believers are taught Matthew 28: 19-20:
“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”
In Matthew 3:11, John the Baptist says, “I baptize you with water for repentance.” He was referring to the people who came to him to be baptized. It’s never really explained in the Bible why people would believe that water baptism would be symbolic of repentance. In order to fully understand why John the Baptist’s followers would believe that this baptism would prepare the Jews for the Messiah, we have to go back to the Old Testament and the Law.
Jewish Traditions
Jews were given laws about ritual washing, which was called a mikvah. Both women and men were required to submerse their bodies in water to purify it before Holy Days or the Sabbath. Women were commanded to immerse their body following menstruation. In Orthodox communities, people even submerse kitchen utensils and cookware in the mikvah before use.
The Jews were told to use a natural spring or cistern for the mikvah. Oceans and rivers were also acceptable. When John the Baptist began baptizing the Jews, this was understood as part of their heritage. It’s very probable that the mikvah was the precursor to the Christian baptism sacrament.
Christians & Water as a Purifier
Water is one of the necessities of life. An individual might go up to three or four weeks without food, but only about two to three days without water before becoming very ill. It is essential to every system in the body. Water is required for healing, calming and soothing. In the desert of Israel, it would have been even more important than most of us in America could appreciate.
In many religions, water is considered a purifier and is sacred. The Hindus believe that water is spiritually cleansing. A morning cleansing bath is obligatory. Many temples have cisterns where believers can take baths before entering. Muslims, too, have ritual immersion rites to purify their body before approaching God in prayer. In the Buddhist culture, water is important to the funeral ceremony. The water takes the soul from the body and returns it to the earth.
Water in Christianity
Most Christians remember the story of Noah and the flood. God covered the earth in water as a purification rite. You should note that Christians are not the only ones with a flood story. Many other cultures around the world, from South America to Asia, have stories about a great flood as part of their creation story.
Water features heavily throughout the Bible as a symbol of the spiritual need for God. Psalm 42 says, “As the hart panteth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, O God.”
“I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give unto him that is athirst of the fountain of the water of life freely.” – Revelation 21:6
The Christian rite of baptism is an outward sign of an inward change in a person’s life. It is a celebration of a new person. Even if you don’t believe in Christianity, celebrate a loved one’s baptism with them as they take on a new direction.
Beginning in November, some people sport red poppies on their lapels to honor those who died in military conflicts. Americans wear red poppies in May for the same reason. White poppies are for those who passed away in service, but not during a conflict. On November 11, we celebrate Remembrance Day. Some churches have special services. If you have family members who passed away during the war, you may go out to their grave and honor them. Canada recognizes Remembrance Day as a national holiday, but for many, it’s just another day off work. Learn more about the importance of this day and why we wear red poppies.
World War I
It was the British Empire that chose to take Canada into the First World War. Nearly 61,000 Canadians died in the conflict, making it the bloodiest war in our history. However, it gave the country confidence to be a world leader. It was in April 1915, at the Second Battle of Ypres where one Canadian division lost over 6,000 men. Major John McCrae, who was serving as a doctor at the time, is thought to have composed a poem, “In Flanders Fields” during his time in this battle as a tribute to his friend, Lieutenant Alexis Helmer. The poem begins:
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
Why the Poppy?
The Scarlet Corn Poppies thrived in Europe under barren conditions. During the Napoleonic Wars that ravished the land, these poppies were the one plant that grew and covered the land. When the armies arrived in Europe to battle the Germans, soldiers were greeted by fields of poppies that flourished on bare land.
When McCrae used the poppy in his poem as a tribute to the sacrifice, he honored this plant that many almost saw as kind of a weed. In 1921, the Royal British Legion adopted the symbol for those who died in the war and in later conflicts. A few years later, a women’s guild introduced the white poppy as a lasting symbol of peace. Some people saw the white poppy undermining the significance of the red poppy, but these two ideas, honoring those who died and praying for peace, can coexist.
Red Poppies & National Celebrations
Remembrance Day is celebrated on November 11 to mark the end of World War I. Sometimes it is called Armistice Day or Poppy Day. Many other countries celebrate the day, including Australia, New Zealand, Great Britain, and the United States. World War I affected people worldwide, not just where the fighting was, but in countries that sent soldiers to the warfront.
Although the federal government recognizes Remembrance Day, each of the provinces treat the day much differently. In Manitoba, most businesses close from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. In other places, it’s up to the employer to give decide if they want to give a holiday. Whether you get to take the day off or not, you should remember those valiant men who fought for freedom in foreign wars. If you ever get a chance to attend the official ceremony at the National War Memorial in Ottawa, it’s a tribute that you’ll never forget.
Everyone can get behind the symbolism of the red poppy. The men who fought in the military deserve to be remembered for their service. Make a point to read “In Flanders Fields” by John McCrae. Hear the respect he had for those who served and died on the battlefield. Take a few moments on November 11 to remember the men who gave everything for Canada.
Sometimes, role models come from the least expected places. In 1940, in a small village in Kenya, over 12,000 km from Toronto, a young girl was born to a farmer and his wife. She was named Wangari Muta Maathai. When she was a young girl, her family separated in order to send her and her brothers to school. Her dad lived on a farm where he found work, and her mom lived near the school. Later, Wangari would go to a Catholic high school in Limuru. Through a strange twist of fate and politics, she received a scholarship to study at a college in Kansas, where she earned a Bachelor of Science. From there, she went to the University of Pittsburgh (Pennsylvania) where she would earn a master’s degree in biology. It was here she was introduced to environmental restoration. When Wangari completed her degree, she returned to Kenya, believing she had an appointment as a research assistant at the University College of Nairobi.
When she went to her new job, she discovered the position had been given to someone else. Wangari suspectd gender or tribal bias. She found another position, then went on to earn a Ph.D. at a European university. In the mid-1970s, she would become the first woman in Nairobi appointed as chair of a department and as an associate professor. It was during this time of campaigning for equal benefits for women on the staff that she became involved in civic organizations. Through her work and research, she determined that many of Kenya’s problems stemmed from environmental degradation.
The Green Belt Movement
Wangari encouraged women in Kenya to plant tree nurseries. Each seedling that was later planted in another location provided a small stipend to the woman who grew the tree. This program started out as “Save the Land Harambee,” but changed name to the Green Belt Movement. This movement encouraged women to work together to restore the trees, which provided fuel and firewood and stopped soil erosion. At a time when unemployment was rising, every dollar counted in the family and community.
The Green Belt Movement encouraged education, not only in environmental issues, but civic issues too. The leaders of the movement advocated for accountability from national leaders in Kenya. Wangari had faced political opposition before she ever started Green Belt, but following the organization of her efforts, the Kenyan government opposed her efforts and attempted to prevent her from registering voters. Her own government called her “a crazy woman,” but she continued to fight for environmental and civic rights in Kenya. She earned multiple international awards for her work with Kenyan women, but her own government arrested her. She was targeted for assassination, but she never lost sight of her cause.
In 2004, she was awarded a Nobel Peace Prize “for her contribution to sustainable development, democracy and peace.” It was the first time an African woman won the prize, and she was the first environmentalist to earn the title. Until her death in 2011, she continued her work in government, sustainability, and peace.
The Green Belt Movement goes on under new leadership. In 2014, over 430,000 trees were planted in communities in Kenya. Stable communities create stable governments, which is why its work is so important to the country. Green Belt’s efforts now include sustainable energy and clean water. Wangari believed that a “values-based society was a prerequisite for prosperity and that empowering women was a key to breaking the cycle of poverty.”
Wangari is a role model for everyone. If you can find a copy of “Unbowed: A Memoir,” it’s a book worth picking up to see how this woman from a small village went on to become a recipient of the Nobel Peace Prize.
The United Nations has designated October 17 as the International Day for the Eradication of Poverty. According to Globalissues.org, over three billion people, or half of the world’s population, live on less than $3.29CAD per day. In Canada, according to the Standing Committee on Human Resources, about 14 percent of the population have what is called “low income.” That means they make less than half of the median income, but the group is not truly labeled poor. Lack of income is just one way of measuring poverty. Because Canada is one of the wealthiest countries in the world, we shouldn’t have almost five million people living without food or housing.
Although organizations measure poverty differently, it is agreed that certain subsets of Canadians are worse off than others. Aboriginal Canadians tend to make about 30 percent less than the rest of the population. Immigrants, seniors and those with disabilities are also at a higher risk of being affected by poverty. UNICEF measures child poverty, even in rich nations. Canada has 13.3 percent of its children living in poverty, compared to the average 11 percent in the other 35 economically advanced countries.
How Are You Affected By Poverty?
You may have a roof over your head and food in your refrigerator and get regular health care. However, poverty is a significant burden on the economy. It’s estimated that poverty costs Ontario about 6 percent of its Gross Domestic Product each year. Those who live in poverty have higher health care expenses, because their health is exacerbated by not having their basic needs met. Poverty shortens a person’s life by about 21 years. About 200,000 Canadians experience homelessness each year, and the figures are increasing due to the rising costs of housing and rising debt levels.
Personally, you may not ever experience poverty or have a reason to be concerned about knowing where your next meal is coming from. That’s not the reality for many of your neighbors. Whether or not you know these people, you should be aware of the effects of poverty on your community and the country. It takes more resources to help those individuals. Students who don’t have enough don’t learn effectively. Men and women who don’t have a home often don’t have a job. It hurts everyone when those people have to be supported.
A Plan to Reduce Poverty
In 2016, the Standing Committee on Human Resources developed a National Anti-Poverty Plan that recommends how poverty can be eradicated in our country. It’s been argued that investing in reducing child poverty has a huge return on future spending by the government in social assistance, criminal justice and the health system. This plan is comprehensive and considerate. It is guided by human rights, ensuring that those in need have dignity in getting assistance. It includes:
Early childhood education and care that is publicly funded
Investment for indigenous education and economic development
Improvements to the Old Age Security and Guaranteed Income Supplement programs to lift seniors out of poverty
Development of a policy concerning right to food
Improving the nutritional programs in the country
Implementing a national pharmacy program for prescription drug care for everyone
Federal minimum wage increases
Many organizations will be pushing the government to make steps in reducing poverty in Canada. The plan has been released but not accepted by Parliament. Join the Twitter or Facebook feed of Citizens for Public Justice to follow its progress and to learn how you can help. It’s going to take each of us to work together to make a difference in the lives of all. “It is never acceptable for a rich country to do nothing about poverty, and now is certainly not the time,” said Leilani Farha, Canada Without Poverty’s Executive Director. “The rights of 4.8 million people are being violated and yet the Federal Government hardly seems concerned. Our plan lays out the framework for a successful national anti-poverty plan.”
Have you ever thought about all the time and money involved in planning your wedding? According to one report, the average wedding with a honeymoon costs between $22,000 and $28,000 for each couple. That doesn’t count all the hours you’ve spent talking to vendors, trying on dresses and looking for the perfect decorations to show off your style and personality.
Types of Wedding Insurance
The two main types of wedding insurance are the following:
Event liability and property damage, which provides protection in case there are accidents arising from your wedding, such as a guest who gets injured or an alcohol-related accident
Event cancellation or postponement insurance, which covers nonrefundable expenses if the event is cancelled or postponed.
Some companies offer a discount when both types of insurance are purchased together.
Although many vendors require some kind of liability insurance as part of renting the facility, this insurance doesn’t protect your investment in the wedding should the worst happen. Maybe one of you gets food poisoning the night before the ceremony. Perhaps a flight gets canceled, causing you to not arrive in time to your destination wedding. It could be as simple as bad weather or an unexpected military deployment. Whether you just have to postpone the event or even cancel it, wedding insurance is a good idea to protect your money. You get back any non-recoverable deposits from hotels and suppliers as well as damages.
What Does Wedding Insurance Cover?
Each insurance company will have different policies and contracts. Generally, a wedding insurance package designed to protect you in case of cancellation covers certain things:
Damage to wedding gifts for up to 24 hours after receiving them.
Non-recoverable deposits paid to various vendors who fail to meet contractual obligations. For example, the limousine that is taking the bride and groom to the airport doesn’t show up. Insurance covers the costs of another vehicle.
Physical damage to the dress or rings, usually with limits of the damage happening within a certain time frame.
Reimbursement for pre-paid and non-recoverable costs of the honeymoon if the wedding is canceled or postponed.
Coverage to replace photographs or DVDs if these items need to be retaken. Also it can cover the cost to replace a photographer at the last minute if something happens.
Direct loss or damage to the wedding cake and flowers.
If you have expenses that arise out of trying to avoid a cancelation, for instance, you have to take a more expensive flight to get to your destination on time, your insurance would cover those charges.
Is Wedding Insurance for You?
Many people think that wedding insurance is only for high-end weddings. Of course, if you’re spending $20,000 or more on an event that’s a year away, you should protect that investment. However, insurers base insurance premiums on the limits you need to protect your investment. Just make sure to talk to your insurance provider and fully understand the limits on your coverage. Think about the risks you have with your event. If you’re worried about someone who’s been drinking at your party going out on the road, look for a “host liquor liability” policy. Or don’t have alcohol.
Wedding insurance is available up to a year before the wedding, although it does need to be purchased at least 30 days before the event. It’s a good idea to get the insurance once you’ve made the first deposit to a vendor or event planner. It might be difficult to imagine that your big day could have a hiccup, but the reality is that no one knows what’s going to happen tomorrow. It’s just wise to protect your investment with the right insurance. You’ll sleep better knowing that you won’t lose your money that has been given to different vendors.
Summer might be half over, but there is still plenty of travel time before the snow flies to visit some great sites in our country. Let’s take a look at some of the most interesting places to see to learn more about other faiths and to experience the peace and power of the past.
Basilica of Sainte-Anne-de-Beaupré, Quebec
The peak season to make a pilgrimage to this stunning basilica along the Saint Lawrence River is July 26, the feast of St. Anne, who is the patron saint of Quebec. Many believe St. Anne intercedes for the pious to obtain miracles. Building began on the present-day basilica in 1926 and was finished in 1946, but the land where the building sits was donated to the Catholic Church in 1658. The building is not only home to the Catholic Church, it’s also a beautiful piece of architecture. Over half a million people come to the basilica annually.
Saint Joseph’s Oratory, Montreal
Saint Joseph’s Oratory is a minor basilica, but it is the largest church in Canada. Construction began on a small chapel in 1904. In 1924, construction started on the basilica, but this was not completed until 1967. The dome of the basilica is the third-largest in the world. About two million visitors come to the basilica each year. On the 100th anniversary of the Oratory, it was designated as a National Historic Site of Canada.
Petroglyphs Provincial Park, Woodview, Ontario
The Park is another National Historic Site, designated as the largest collection of First Nation rock carvings in Ontario. The glyphs are an important part of the history, but the rock site is a sacred place to the local Ojibwe people. The visitor center offers a great deal of information about the site and has a children’s hands-on activity room and a movie about the site. You won’t be allowed to photograph or videotape the rock carvings out of respect for the spirituality of the site.
Valley of the Ten Peaks, Banff National Park, Alberta
When you think of crystal-clear water, you might think of the Caribbean. But there’s a site right in this great country that features a crystal-clear blue-green lake surrounded by ten mountains giving you beautiful scenes and a calm atmosphere. The secluded valley is thought to be the home of the Nakoda, who are also known as the Stoney Indians. Although the mountains have been given individual names, at one time they were simply known by the numbers one through 10.
Majorville Medicine Wheel, South Alberta
A medicine wheel is a stone circle built by the First Nation tribes. Sites containing them are thought to have religious, astronomical and calendrical significance for the tribes. The one at Majorville features one of the most complex designs for a site of this nature. The aesthetic value is preserved because it overlooks an undisturbed native prairie. There are many other medicine wheels to visit in Canada. Saskatchewan boasts three:
Roy Rivers medicine wheel
Turtle medicine wheel
Tipperary Creek medicine wheel
Martyrs’ Shrine, Ontario
The Canadian Jesuit Martyrs’ Shrine is consecrated to the memory of Canadian and Jesuit martyrs, including Isaac Jogues (1607-1646), who was captured by the Iroquois, tortured and lost his fingers before being made a slave. He escaped and went to France, then returned to Canada to be a missionary. He was martyred at the age of 39. The shrine was consecrated in 1926. It’s only open through the summer season, because it was not built with insulation. There are a number of guided walking tours throughout the grounds to explore the monuments that have been erected.
You don’t have to be Catholic or a native First Nations people to visit one of these beautiful sites and experience the spirituality associated with the location. Take some time to see what’s in our great nation.
On September 13, “The Bachelorette Canada” premieres on W Network. The American show, “The Bachelorette” has been a popular mainstay of summer television for a number of years. The premise is simple. A group of men compete for the hand of a single woman. Each week, the bachelorette narrows the field until there is just one left. The men and woman go on dates, sometimes one-on-one, sometimes as a group, to explore the local culture and get to know each other. It’s anticipated that the final date will be a proposal, but no one really knows for sure until the end. During the final episode of the U.S. version of “The Bachelorette” that just aired, one big storyline was that of the men asking the bachelorette’s dad for permission to marry his daughter.
JoJo was this season’s bachelorette. She had expected a proposal during her season on “The Bachelor,” but it was not to be. She was then given the opportunity to be the star of her own season, and viewers saw her go through many dates around the world finally narrowing her choices to Jordan and Robby. When the two men met the parents (on separate days), they each had discussions about the importance of JoJo’s family and how much JoJo wanted her parents to approve of her future husband. Robby did talk to JoJo’s father and ask his permission to ask JoJo to marry him. Jordan did not. Robby was ready to propose to JoJo, but she did not give him the opportunity. When she finally met with Jordan, the discussion revolved around how disappointed she was that he never got her father’s permission to propose to her. He made a call and talked to her father, then proposed. JoJo said yes.
Do Adults Need Parental Permission to Get Engaged?
In days past, a woman was considered the property of her father. When she married, her father would lose her work toward the household duties. She would be required to get her father’s permission to marry. For centuries, women were not allowed to own property themselves and they almost always needed a patriarchal figure. Fortunately, this has begun to change over the years, and there are no such limitations. “The Bachelorette” reminded Americans of this custom and many people wonder if a woman really needs permission to get engaged or to get married.
JoJo is an adult who was fairly established in her career and life’s path. She made it clear to Jordan that the tradition was important to her, but not because she was subject to her parents. This is a valid point. She also communicated her needs to Jordan very clearly so that he understood how much it meant to her. It seemed to be about family, not the permission. She wanted her family included in her decision.
Many women today aren’t as traditional. Family is complicated and complex. Today’s brides might have absentee dads or moms. What’s a groom to do when there isn’t a dad? What should a same-sex couple do when asking parents for permission? Which person asks permission if two women are being married? How should a groom act if the bride is much older, with children of her own or with deceased parents? How are you to know if you should ask permission before you get engaged? And, what are you going to do if the parents say no, should you ask?
The Solution?
When two people are considering marriage, it’s important to talk about what’s important to each person. Communication of your expectations is the only way to know what you should do. The tradition may seem outdated in today’s society, but it’s not necessarily about patriarchal permission. Before you take steps to propose, ask your partner about his or her thoughts. Then proceed accordingly.
For some engaged or newly married Canadians, life’s journey will take them south of the border on a more permanent basis. Employment opportunities, enterprise, education or even the union itself may mean a move to the United States. Thousands of Canadians leave the Great White North each year to parts south. Almost 2% of the 42 million immigrants within the US hail from the nation whose name descends from the St. Lawrence Iroquoian word Kanata, which translates to “village” or “sentiment.” While the two nations share the world’s longest border and other cultural elements, there’s a lot that you might not know about life in the States. Here are some things you should do before and right after you move.
Deciding Where To Live In The U.S.
The United States is the world’s third-most-populous nation behind China and India. It’s also the third in size by total area. It’s a place that has diverse regions in terms of climate and culture. You shouldn’t assume that you know what a place is like based on media and literature. The largest city, New York City, is itself a collection of various neighborhoods with various influences and personalities. If work and education are bringing you south of the border, the location may dictate your choices. Canada is a place that is intimately familiar with very cold temperatures in the winter. Parts of the Southern and Western United States have mild winters and extremely hot summers. The cost of living varies greatly from place to place. Keep all these in mind as you plan.
Applying for a Social Security Number
A social security number (SSN) is a nine-digit number assigned to citizens, permanent residents and temporary workers by the Social Security Administration, an agency of the federal government. This number acts sort of as a national ID for taxation and other purposes. Often various records for credit, education, health care and employment are sorted and indexed using the SSN. You will need an SSN to do the following:
Open an account with a financial institution
Complete a tax return
Apply for a driver’s license
Apply for a federal loan
Secure some types of public assistance
Opening a Bank Account In The U.S.
Having a checking account with a US bank is convenient for depositing paychecks and withdrawing money to pay bills and make purchases. Once you have your SSN and a mailing address, you’ll need to pick a bank or credit union for your money. Think about the type of personal banking features you’ll need, such as debit cards, automatic teller machines, branch locations and online access. You should go with an institution that has locations and amenities that are convenient to your lifestyle.
Establishing Credit
Building credit in the United States is an important part of putting down roots. If you want to finance a home or car purchase, lenders will look at your credit history to see how likely you are to repay your debts in full. If you want to rent an apartment, open an account with a utility provider or even work for some companies, your credit history will be reviewed. Having Canadian credit may not be enough for you to do all the things you need to do. Consider applying for a secured or prepaid credit card to start building a borrowing history stateside. By paying your balance on time each month, you’ll slowly build good credit to be eligible for the most favorable loan terms and conditions.
Starting a new phase of life in a new place can be very exciting, especially in the United States. There is much to offer, but it’s important to attend to a few matters as soon as possible. Think carefully about the life that you and your partner want to have and plan accordingly.
From the time most girls are little, they start to plan the wedding of their dreams. It can seem as if the groom’s only job is to wait at the altar for the bride to show up. The wedding planning may be the bride’s venue, but as a groom, you can certainly get involved. This celebration commemorates the love you have for each other.
A Supportive Groom
Instead of letting one person take care of everything, both of you should be actively engaged in the planning. Here are some tips to help a groom be supportive and to have a say in what should be the most memorable day of your life.
Have opinions. Even though the details may seem minute to you, it’s important for the bride to see that you are engaged with the process. Be diplomatic when you really aren’t sure what the difference is.
Take care of your relationship through this time. You may be required to go through pre-marital counseling. Use that time as a stepping stone to build a better partnership.
Register for gifts with your bride. Use the time to learn more about her tastes and style instead of looking at it as a long shopping trip.
Help with the research of venues, caterers, or other vendors. Offer to help look for photographers or rental companies for the tuxes. Talk to friends or family members who have recently gotten married and ask them to share advice about their experience.
Go to the meetings with the vendors when you can. Not only will you share the time with your bride, but you also help take the pressure off her during planning.
Deal with your family during the planning and wedding. This may mean that you have to stand up to your mom when she inserts herself into the mix. Don’t expect your bride to mediate with your parents or siblings over wedding details. Work it out together, then make the decision known to everyone.
Be the stress relief. Take time out of your schedule to make sure you have dates with your bride that aren’t about the wedding. Make sure she has days to relax with her friends to help keep her sane. The closer the wedding gets, the more stressed she may feel. Being the helpmate before you ever get married will bring you closer together.
Don’t shirk on your responsibilities to your groomsmen. Pick out the gifts for the guys yourself. Schedule fitting times to meet with the guys, and stay on top of your own planning. If you have friends who may get out of line during the party and reception, talk to them beforehand and have a plan to deal with it.
Be appreciative. Thank the people who have been helpful in making the wedding happen. Help write thank-you notes for gifts that arrive.
Plan the honeymoon. Even though you may enjoy surprising your bride, don’t wait until the last minute to tell her where you’re going. Remember that the wedding night may not be all you expect. You both may be exhausted after the ceremony and reception, so don’t have so many expectations that it turns a positive day into a disappointing night.
Help Manage the Stress Instead of Adding to It
Every bride wants the perfect day for a wedding. You may have to be the voice of reason that reminds her that when something doesn’t go as planned, it’s okay. However, you can also do what you can to make sure things do go right. Help her check in with the vendors and wedding planner on the days before the ceremony. Ask her what you can do to help every step along the way so that you both get to the altar with less stress.
It’s hard enough to create a guest list for just adults, but dealing with kids at a wedding can be more complicated. When comes to young people, you have to decide first whether you want to and can include them at the affair. If you have space limitations, excluding children is a good place to start to keep the head count in check. If you decide to invite children, you do need to make some arrangements for them. Here are some thoughts to help you plan for children, or not, at your ceremony and reception.
Not Inviting Children
You should be prepared for people to ask you if their children are included on the invitation, even when it’s specifically addressed to just the parents. Have an answer ready, like, “no, we just can’t include children this time due to space parameters,” or “we need to limit the guest list.” If you’re allowing nieces, nephews or family members who are younger, say so. “We are only able to invite the children of our family.” It is very difficult to exclude children, but it is appropriate to only have those individuals at your wedding who you want. Just be tactful when you respond to people.
One additional note: It might be tempting to invite the kids to the ceremony only, but this isn’t recommended. Imagine how you would feel attending the service only to watch your friends or family go off to a party without you.
Inviting Children
Kids add a certain magic to a wedding because they experience it in a way adults cannot. Still, unattended children could easily turn into a black magic moment. You have to plan for kids in attendance.
Make sure you are clear about which children are invited from each family. If space isn’t an issue, then just put “and family” on the invitation. When space is an issue, you’ll need to write out each person’s name.
Dictate seating appropriately. Don’t put one adult at a table with lots of kids. Certainly reconsider placing all the children at a table without supervision. You might even consider having a designated adult or teenager, or a hired babysitter, keep an eye on things. It would be a small price to pay to maintain semblance and order while allowing parents to dance and enjoy the party too.
Talk to the caterer about offering a separate child’s meal that is simple and easy and something little ones will eat, such as chicken fingers or pizza. You might also request that the kids get served first because they won’t be as patient as adults. A sundae bar makes a great dessert option.
Keep the kids entertained. Set up a movie room or have goodie bags with crayons and color books. Place a few board games off to the side for after dinner. Provide diversions to keep everyone occupied.
Stay calm and have a sense of humor about the way the kids act. Ask your photographer to get those special moments of the kids dancing or sticking their fingers in the cake when no one’s looking. You can’t control every moment, so you might as well relax and just have fun with them.
Don’t apologize for giving your young friends the opportunity to take part in your wedding day. Children need to see these special moments to understand the world. However, you also don’t need to apologize for limiting your guest list and not allowing every child to attend. It’s your wedding and you need to make the best choices for you and your spouse. Do what needs to be done and stand firm. Just be prepared to deal with whichever option you choose to make the most of your ceremony and reception.
There are a number of scriptures in the Bible that discuss baptism. John the Baptist actually baptized Jesus, even though he believed he was unworthy to perform the ritual for Christ. In many Christian churches, baptism is one of the sacraments. It’s taken very seriously, even though it is a very joyous occasion.
Believers are taught Matthew 28: 19-20:
“Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”
In Matthew 3:11, John the Baptist says, “I baptize you with water for repentance.” He was referring to the people who came to him to be baptized. It’s never really explained in the Bible why people would believe that water baptism would be symbolic of repentance. In order to fully understand why John the Baptist’s followers would believe that this baptism would prepare the Jews for the Messiah, we have to go back to the Old Testament and the Law.
Jewish Traditions
Jews were given laws about ritual washing, which was called a mikvah. Both women and men were required to submerse their bodies in water to purify it before Holy Days or the Sabbath. Women were commanded to immerse their body following menstruation. In Orthodox communities, people even submerse kitchen utensils and cookware in the mikvah before use.
The Jews were told to use a natural spring or cistern for the mikvah. Oceans and rivers were also acceptable. When John the Baptist began baptizing the Jews, this was understood as part of their heritage. It’s very probable that the mikvah was the precursor to the Christian baptism sacrament.
Christians & Water as a Purifier
Water is one of the necessities of life. An individual might go up to three or four weeks without food, but only about two to three days without water before becoming very ill. It is essential to every system in the body. Water is required for healing, calming and soothing. In the desert of Israel, it would have been even more important than most of us in America could appreciate.
In many religions, water is considered a purifier and is sacred. The Hindus believe that water is spiritually cleansing. A morning cleansing bath is obligatory. Many temples have cisterns where believers can take baths before entering. Muslims, too, have ritual immersion rites to purify their body before approaching God in prayer. In the Buddhist culture, water is important to the funeral ceremony. The water takes the soul from the body and returns it to the earth.
Water in Christianity
Most Christians remember the story of Noah and the flood. God covered the earth in water as a purification rite. You should note that Christians are not the only ones with a flood story. Many other cultures around the world, from South America to Asia, have stories about a great flood as part of their creation story.
Water features heavily throughout the Bible as a symbol of the spiritual need for God. Psalm 42 says, “As the hart panteth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, O God.”
“I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end. I will give unto him that is athirst of the fountain of the water of life freely.” – Revelation 21:6
The Christian rite of baptism is an outward sign of an inward change in a person’s life. It is a celebration of a new person. Even if you don’t believe in Christianity, celebrate a loved one’s baptism with them as they take on a new direction.
Beginning in November, some people sport red poppies on their lapels to honor those who died in military conflicts. Americans wear red poppies in May for the same reason. White poppies are for those who passed away in service, but not during a conflict. On November 11, we celebrate Remembrance Day. Some churches have special services. If you have family members who passed away during the war, you may go out to their grave and honor them. Canada recognizes Remembrance Day as a national holiday, but for many, it’s just another day off work. Learn more about the importance of this day and why we wear red poppies.
World War I
It was the British Empire that chose to take Canada into the First World War. Nearly 61,000 Canadians died in the conflict, making it the bloodiest war in our history. However, it gave the country confidence to be a world leader. It was in April 1915, at the Second Battle of Ypres where one Canadian division lost over 6,000 men. Major John McCrae, who was serving as a doctor at the time, is thought to have composed a poem, “In Flanders Fields” during his time in this battle as a tribute to his friend, Lieutenant Alexis Helmer. The poem begins:
In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.
Why the Poppy?
The Scarlet Corn Poppies thrived in Europe under barren conditions. During the Napoleonic Wars that ravished the land, these poppies were the one plant that grew and covered the land. When the armies arrived in Europe to battle the Germans, soldiers were greeted by fields of poppies that flourished on bare land.
When McCrae used the poppy in his poem as a tribute to the sacrifice, he honored this plant that many almost saw as kind of a weed. In 1921, the Royal British Legion adopted the symbol for those who died in the war and in later conflicts. A few years later, a women’s guild introduced the white poppy as a lasting symbol of peace. Some people saw the white poppy undermining the significance of the red poppy, but these two ideas, honoring those who died and praying for peace, can coexist.
Red Poppies & National Celebrations
Remembrance Day is celebrated on November 11 to mark the end of World War I. Sometimes it is called Armistice Day or Poppy Day. Many other countries celebrate the day, including Australia, New Zealand, Great Britain, and the United States. World War I affected people worldwide, not just where the fighting was, but in countries that sent soldiers to the warfront.
Although the federal government recognizes Remembrance Day, each of the provinces treat the day much differently. In Manitoba, most businesses close from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. In other places, it’s up to the employer to give decide if they want to give a holiday. Whether you get to take the day off or not, you should remember those valiant men who fought for freedom in foreign wars. If you ever get a chance to attend the official ceremony at the National War Memorial in Ottawa, it’s a tribute that you’ll never forget.
Everyone can get behind the symbolism of the red poppy. The men who fought in the military deserve to be remembered for their service. Make a point to read “In Flanders Fields” by John McCrae. Hear the respect he had for those who served and died on the battlefield. Take a few moments on November 11 to remember the men who gave everything for Canada.
