Five Ways To Ask Someone To Be in Your Wedding Party

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Five Ways To Ask Someone To Be in Your Wedding Party

Once you PARTY and your significant other have agreed to tie the knot, it might seem like the pressure is off. After all, you’ve gotten past the pre-proposal anxiety of “Will they say yes?” and now it’s time to plan your nuptials. One of the most important things on your to-do list is asking people to be in your wedding party. If you’ve got several close friends or siblings, this next step might be a no-brainer.

If you or your partner proposed, there were probably special arrangements made for the occasion. Asking someone to marry you isn’t like asking them to help you with a back zipper or feedback on an outfit. While not as critical, asking people to stand with you and your partner on your big day is a special request as well. Finding special ways to ask loved ones can be part of the pre-wedding fun as well as a contributor to fond wedding day memories for the future. Here are some ideas to consider.

1. Plan a Special Meal

What better way to ask someone to be a bridesmaid, groomsman, or another participant than over a great meal? Canadians love having a special reason to get together, and asking someone to be in your wedding is as good a reason as any. Depending on who you’re planning to ask, you can have one big get-together for everyone or do it on an individual basis. You can save some money by asking everyone at one time, but if there are loved ones who can’t readily accept, a group meal may be awkward.

2. Send Gifts

Some couples will buy gifts for the people in their wedding party either leading up to the event or afterward as a thank you. Consider sending a gift along with a handwritten letter making the request. The gift can be something as simple as a coffee mug or a custom T-shirt that acknowledges the recipient as a bridesmaid, groomsman, etc. If you have the budget and a flair for drama, fancy accessories such as jewelry or cuff links can add an extra special touch.

3. Take a Trip

If you can afford a weekend escape, consider inviting your loved ones on a short getaway. Before this, consider the people you’re going to ask and the type of trip they’ll say yes to. For example, if the person you’re asking to be a best man isn’t into the great outdoors, an overnight camping trip might not be the best idea. You’re getting ready to embark on the great adventure that is married life. This getaway is a metaphor for the adventure ahead. Make the connection and set the tone before you pop the question(s).

4. Buy an Accessory

If you’re fairly confident the people you’re going to ask will respond affirmatively, consider making the request with an accessory that is significant to the big day. For example, if you’re planning to have the groomsmen wear the same thing, you could send each person the necktie or bow tie they’ll be wearing along with a handwritten note. This idea might work especially well if you’ll be doing a themed wedding that involves special attire or accessories.

5. Send a Scrapbook or a Digital Photo Album

If you have several pictures of you and the invitee from over the years, consider sending a scrapbook or a digital photo album. Though marriage is the next major milestone in your life, you can honor your history with pictures spanning your relationship. Wrap things up by asking them to be a part of your future by standing with you at the altar. 

When you’re ready to begin assembling your wedding party, get creative with it. Weddings are special times to cherish the one you love with the ones who have loved you. Consider these ideas to make the request special for you, your partner, and your nearest and dearest. 

Five Ways To Ask Someone To Be in Your Wedding Party

Once you PARTY and your significant other have agreed to tie the knot, it might seem like the pressure is off. After all, you’ve gotten past the pre-proposal anxiety of “Will they say yes?” and now it’s time to plan your nuptials. One of the most important things on your to-do list is asking people to be in your wedding party. If you’ve got several close friends or siblings, this next step might be a no-brainer.

If you or your partner proposed, there were probably special arrangements made for the occasion. Asking someone to marry you isn’t like asking them to help you with a back zipper or feedback on an outfit. While not as critical, asking people to stand with you and your partner on your big day is a special request as well. Finding special ways to ask loved ones can be part of the pre-wedding fun as well as a contributor to fond wedding day memories for the future. Here are some ideas to consider.

1. Plan a Special Meal

What better way to ask someone to be a bridesmaid, groomsman, or another participant than over a great meal? Canadians love having a special reason to get together, and asking someone to be in your wedding is as good a reason as any. Depending on who you’re planning to ask, you can have one big get-together for everyone or do it on an individual basis. You can save some money by asking everyone at one time, but if there are loved ones who can’t readily accept, a group meal may be awkward.

2. Send Gifts

Some couples will buy gifts for the people in their wedding party either leading up to the event or afterward as a thank you. Consider sending a gift along with a handwritten letter making the request. The gift can be something as simple as a coffee mug or a custom T-shirt that acknowledges the recipient as a bridesmaid, groomsman, etc. If you have the budget and a flair for drama, fancy accessories such as jewelry or cuff links can add an extra special touch.

3. Take a Trip

If you can afford a weekend escape, consider inviting your loved ones on a short getaway. Before this, consider the people you’re going to ask and the type of trip they’ll say yes to. For example, if the person you’re asking to be a best man isn’t into the great outdoors, an overnight camping trip might not be the best idea. You’re getting ready to embark on the great adventure that is married life. This getaway is a metaphor for the adventure ahead. Make the connection and set the tone before you pop the question(s).

4. Buy an Accessory

If you’re fairly confident the people you’re going to ask will respond affirmatively, consider making the request with an accessory that is significant to the big day. For example, if you’re planning to have the groomsmen wear the same thing, you could send each person the necktie or bow tie they’ll be wearing along with a handwritten note. This idea might work especially well if you’ll be doing a themed wedding that involves special attire or accessories.

5. Send a Scrapbook or a Digital Photo Album

If you have several pictures of you and the invitee from over the years, consider sending a scrapbook or a digital photo album. Though marriage is the next major milestone in your life, you can honor your history with pictures spanning your relationship. Wrap things up by asking them to be a part of your future by standing with you at the altar. 

When you’re ready to begin assembling your wedding party, get creative with it. Weddings are special times to cherish the one you love with the ones who have loved you. Consider these ideas to make the request special for you, your partner, and your nearest and dearest. 

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