wedding planning

Why Bother With the Rehearsal Dinner?
While not completely necessary, the rehearsal dinner provides a way to rehearse the wedding and introduce friends and family in a more intimate setting.

While not completely necessary, the rehearsal dinner provides a way to rehearse the wedding and introduce friends and family in a more intimate setting.

There are plenty of traditions surrounding weddings. Some of these rituals make total sense, like the act of carrying flowers or the symbolism behind exchanging rings. Still, some modern traditions can seem a bit ridiculous. The rehearsal dinner for the event, for example, can easily come across as a pointless activity meant to squeeze some additional cash out of you. There are many opinions on rehearsal dinners and whether or not they are necessary for a wedding. If you are unsure, now is a great time to explore the details and see what fits best for your needs.

The Main Idea 

First, it can be helpful to take a closer look at the rehearsal dinner and why it exists. Though a fairly recent development, rehearsals have become commonplace for most couples. The idea is to bring together all of the most important players in the ceremony before the day of the actual event. During the rehearsal dinner, everyone gets on the same page and learns exactly what he or she must do in order to ensure the celebration goes off without any issues. Though somewhat straightforward, most dinners have strayed a bit from this idea.

Instead of being looked at as a rehearsal, many couples wind up using their rehearsal dinners as a chance to party. This is easily evidenced in the fact that couples have started moving their rehearsal dinners earlier in the week. Originally, the rehearsal was held the night before the actual event. Now, couples have the dinner several nights before so guests can drink and party without fear of having to wake up early the next day for the wedding.

Important Meetings 

For the most part, the people present at your rehearsal dinner will be the most important people to you and your significant other. Parents, siblings, and best friends will all be in attendance, ready to listen to what will be expected of them at the ceremony. Though it stands to reason most of these people have met before, this is not always going to be the case. If your parents have never met your significant other’s parents before, this could be the opportunity you have been waiting to arrive.

Bringing together all of the important people in your life under one roof before your wedding can be good for your spirits. Simply looking around the room and seeing the smiling faces of those you have come to trust and love over the years can be warming to the soul. The dinner allows you a chance to “rehearse,” of course, but it also provides you with an easy setting where you can introduce friends and family members in a more casual setting than your actual ceremony.

Do You Need One? 

Finally, you might be wondering whether you need a rehearsal dinner at all. These events can be costly, which is unappealing when you are already paying a small fortune for the wedding itself. In truth, this dinner is not necessary. For the most part, it is just another chance to eat and drink with people before the wedding. If you can’t afford a rehearsal dinner or deem it unimportant for your plans, simply provide your friends and family members with the information they need for your wedding in your own way.

Planning for your wedding can often be a great deal of work. When faced with decisions like whether you need to host a rehearsal dinner, it is best to really explore all of your options. Though rehearsal dinners might make for an easy meet-and-greet scenario before the day of your actual wedding, they are not always needed and can often be eliminated from the plans without any serious repercussions or issues.

Delegating Responsibilities to Your Wedding Party
Choosing the members of your wedding party can be exciting, but some brides and grooms make the mistake of asking too much of their wedding party.

Choosing the members of your wedding party can be exciting, but some brides and grooms make the mistake of asking too much of their wedding party.

Selecting the members of your wedding party can be a fun and rewarding experience. This is the chance to get sentimental with the friends and family members who have been with you through thick and thin. Of course, it also can be asking a whole lot of the people in your life. Some brides and grooms make the mistake of putting far more on the shoulders of their parties than they should. You want to still be close friends with these people after the wedding has finished, so it is important to take caution.

To get a better feel for what is reasonable to ask of your wedding party members, it is a good idea to take a look at what other people have established over the years. By following a blend of customary techniques and personal adjustments, you and your partner should be able to come up with a balanced plan for the members of your wedding party.

Showers and Outings

Marriage can cost a small fortune. Since you have a lot of financial responsibilities on your plate, it is traditional to turn to the members of your bridal party to foot the bill when necessary. Any finances related to the wedding itself will fall on you and your partner to take care of. However, preliminary events like showers and bachelor or bachelorette parties are a very different story. For the most part, members of the party will be responsible for covering the expenses related to these extra events.

While it is customary for the party members to plan, execute, and cover the costs of these aspects of the wedding, you need to make sure you aren’t asking more than you should. A bachelorette party is one thing, but asking your party members to fly to another country to go on a wine tour for a week is a bit more intense. Stay reasonable in your requests, or cover the costs of the expenses you are demanding. Asking your party members to cover lavish costs for your farfetched ideas can be insensitive.

Covering Your Own Finances 

The men and women who make up your party are going to need to take care of many expenses for your special day. Still, you will need to make sure you are taking care of other costs. Any financial obligations related to hair and makeup on the day of the wedding, for example, will fall onto the happy couple. This is also true of costs centering around transportation to and from the venue, floral accessories like a bouquet, and lodging for the night before the actual ceremony.

Knowing what costs you should be covering can help you to keep the members of your wedding party happy and ready for anything you throw at them. Buying gifts for the men and women in your party will also show your appreciation. Try to get a gift that is both sentimental and effective at showcasing how happy you are to have each individual involved with your wedding.

Travel Concerns 

Finally, travel can be tricky to figure out with your party members. In most cases, people in your wedding party are responsible for arriving at your venue on their own. You also might consider covering some of the costs for members of the party who are traveling a far distance to get to your special event.

The people who comprise your wedding party are going to have a big impact on how your day turns out. When the time comes to start asking members of the party to take care of certain duties, it can be helpful to have a grasp on what you should and should not ask. Use your discretion, and you will be able to take the best course of action.

Secrets to Keeping Guests Happy at Your Wedding
There are a few ways to keep your guests happy at your wedding.

There are a few ways to keep your guests happy at your wedding.

Planning for your wedding can be a lot of work. You want to make sure everything goes smoothly and your vision is executed exactly the way you see it in your mind. Of course, all of this planning and organizing can make it easy to forget about key aspects of the event. Your guests, for example, are very important to keep in mind. Specifically, you need to make sure your wedding is aiming to keep your guests in the right spirits throughout the entire reception. While it might be a struggle, it is far from impossible to achieve.

To keep your guests happy at your wedding, you do not need to go to extreme lengths. In fact, there are a couple of simple secrets you might be able to explore to keep your guests satisfied. Consider these suggestions and get your wedding on the right track.

Arrangements 

One of the most difficult aspects of planning for a wedding is making sure all of your seating arrangements make sense. This is going to take a bit of time, and you might need to sit down with your partner and really hammer out some of the finer details. While it might not seem like much, seating guests at the wrong tables can cause all kinds of minor dramas and problems. To avoid all of this, you need to be mindful of seating from the very first stages of planning.

You might be able to avoid serious confrontation in this regard if you plan accordingly when you are first writing out your guest list. Write out the names of everyone you are planning on inviting and make specific notations on the list to denote who cannot sit near whom. Having this information handy will provide you with a bit of guidance when it is time to look over the seating chart. Though guests can easily get up and move about during the reception, they will be in far better spirits when they learn they are sitting somewhere pleasant.

Satiated and Full

Food is another way to keep your guests happy. There are going to come times during your wedding when you will not be present. Many couples opt to take wedding photos in between ceremonies and receptions. Since you do not want your guests waiting for hours for you to arrive at your own reception, it is best to come up with a course of action that can keep everyone busy and satisfied until you get there. One surefire way to achieve this goal is by going all out on your cocktail hour.

Guests want to eat at weddings. While dinner might be the biggest draw, most guests are going to have more fun by being given the opportunity to try lots of easy finger foods. During your cocktail hour, while you’re out taking photos or getting ready, your guests should be kept busy with drinks and appetizers. Come up with a plan by speaking with your venue and caterers and learning more about how you can provide the right flavors and distractions.

Your Wedding, Your Rules 

It is also important for you to remember that you do not need to break your back for your own wedding. Keep your guests as happy as possible, but remember that it is your wedding. If you don’t want to deal with family members who are complaining about seating charts, then you don’t have to. Remember, this is your special day, and you want to walk away from it with the fondest memories possible. For the best results, try to find a balance between your happiness and the enjoyment of your guests.

Your Guide to Traditional Wedding Dances
Planning your wedding dances takes a bit of effort, but you will be rewarded with memorable moments you can cherish for a lifetime.

Planning your wedding dances takes a bit of effort, but you will be rewarded with memorable moments you can cherish for a lifetime.

If you have been to a wedding or two, or maybe even been part of a wedding party, you have most likely watched as happy, newly wedded couples took to the floor in their first dance. Now you are getting married, and it is your turn to craft the same unforgettable memories with your new spouse. How do you schedule in the traditional wedding dances, set the mood with the right kind of music and ensure you look great and don’t trip over your own feet? A few handy tips on the customary wedding dances, along with some other useful pieces of advice, should help as you plan the night of your life.

Timing Is Everything

The first thing you will need to pin down is your reception’s timeline of events. Brides contributor Heather Lee published an online guide in 2014, detailing everything from the start of cocktail hour to the final song. While Lee’s layout assumes an evening affair, it can be adapted to your own wedding by shifting times earlier or later. Her model also separates the traditional dances, putting the couple’s first one shortly after the end of cocktail hour and placing the parent-child dances about an hour after that. The place of these dances in your own schedule is not immutable, and Brides writer Jamie Mackey’s suggests that you can either separate these dances or schedule them consecutively.

Your First Dance Together as a Couple

You and your sweetie will probably dance shortly after your guests have been seated for the reception. Typically, an emcee will introduce your wedding party first before announcing you as a couple, after which you will transition right into the first dance. You will want to think about the song you choose and the dance style you use to craft a memorable moment.

How do you select “the” song to accompany you and your partner as you move across the floor? Washington Post writer Megan McDonough has some great suggestions:

  • Choose a tune with sentimental value
  • Listen to your collections on shuffle and wait for inspiration to hit
  • Ping friends or family members closest to you for recommendations
  • Ask your disc jockey or the live band you’ve hired for advice

Finally, McDonough notes that your reception venue can provide some cues for the perfect selection. A rustic location might prompt a favorite country track for you to use, and offbeat locales could give rise to equally offbeat songs.

No one’s expecting you to move as smoothly as The Weeknd or to have Jennifer Lopez’s grace and dexterity, but dance lessons may be in order if you’re inexperienced or feel like you have two left feet. When shopping for a studio or instructor, be sure to read online reviews and meet with the staff in person. Offbeat Bride advises starting your lessons at least six to eight months prior to tying the knot.

Incorporating Parent-Child Wedding Dances 

Traditionally, most weddings include a father-daughter and a mother-son dance. As with many other customs in the modern age, more couples are adopting personalized approaches and even deciding whether to include them or not. Some same-gender couples are ditching this practice altogether, and there’s always the question of what to do in the case of a deceased or estranged parent. You don’t have to limit yourselves in this regard, as you’re free to include grandparents, in-laws or other relatives. If you incorporate these types of dances, remember to choose suitable music.

Planning your couple’s and parent-child wedding dances takes a bit of effort. It is essential to pick the right songs, work these elements into your reception schedule, and be open to taking dance lessons if you need them. With some careful planning and arranging, you will be rewarded with memorable moments you can cherish for a lifetime.

The Fascinating Story Behind Wedding Cake Toppers
Wedding cake toppers remain a popular way to add a decorative touch and personal style to wedding festivities.

Wedding cake toppers remain a popular way to add a decorative touch and personal style to wedding festivities.

Cake toppers have stood on the summits of multilayered sugary wedding confections for several decades as both decorative touches and symbolic representations of happy newlywed couples. While sources disagree on when their use became widespread, they’ve become a staple at many nuptial gatherings both south of our border and here in Canada. This custom has remained as both an enduring tradition and an opportunity to express each couple’s ethos and personal style.

Origins in the United States 

When did the first toppers grace wedding cakes in North America? It depends on who you ask. In their book “Cinderella Dreams: The Allure of the Lavish Wedding,” authors Cele Otones and Elizabeth Pleck mentioned that pairs of figurines representing newlywed couples came into use during the 1950s and were intended to embody the value of togetherness. Meanwhile, blogger Donna Sundblad places their origin before the United States Civil War, noting that affluent families were the first to adopt the trend.

According to Sundblad, the very first toppers usually consisted of flowers, bells or other small objects that represented the newlywed pair. They were typically handcrafted by a member of their families or sculpted by a professional baker with frosting, icing or plaster of Paris. The Smithsonian’s Museum of American History website exhibited a pair of figurines manufactured sometime in the middle or late 20th century, adding that they were more sophisticated and detailed in design than simpler toppers created in the early 1900s. As these decorations became more complex, they expanded to include versions with monogrammed initials, short phrases and shapes such as hearts, bells, bows and even half-moons.

Modern Interpretations of Cake Toppers

As times have changed, so have cake toppers. Sundblad gave one example in her blog post of groom figurines in military uniform becoming widely available for weddings during World War II. Also, the legalization of marriage equality in our country in 2005 translated into more LGBTQ individuals tying the knot. According to a Statistics Canada report, census figures from 2006 and 2011 revealed that the number of same-gender wedded couples almost tripled, rising to 21,015. With the changing demographics of Canada’s citizenry, merchants slowly began selling customized toppers to reflect the racial and ethnic backgrounds of the couples purchasing them as well as to provide options for same-gender wedded pairs.

These greater customization capabilities have also given rise to some new trends. Enterprising couples have gotten creative, using inspiration from pop culture and working with their bakers to craft unique cakes. As a result, many of them also pick toppers that integrate with or match the cakes’ designs. For example, it’s not unusual to see figurines dressed in Starfleet uniforms or Jedi robes. You might also see cake designs borrowed from popular fictional franchises such as Doctor Who, with its iconic time-traveling blue police box sitting atop these multilayered delights.

Top Tips for Your Toppers

Thinking of including a decorative touch on top of your wedding cake? The experts over at The Pink Bride dispense some important planning advice:

  • Pick objects that complement your dessert’s overall look
  • Make sure your topper fits your event’s theme
  • Silhouettes, monogrammed toppers and food-safe flowers can be great choices
  • Go for timeless over trendy if you’re saving the topper for future generations

Whether as a mode of quirky personal expression or as just one detail in a wedding’s overall theme and style, the popularity of cake toppers doesn’t appear to be diminishing anytime soon. Both brick-and-mortar and online vendors offer a wide range of products and personalization options from which couples can choose. While picking yours probably won’t be difficult, it’s vital to remember your cake’s design and your wedding theme when making your selection.

 

 

Using Apps to Plan for Your Wedding
 If you’re currently preparing for your wedding, you definitely want to explore what tech and apps might be able to help.

If you’re currently preparing for your wedding, you definitely want to explore what tech and apps might be able to help.

Technology has taken the human race to some interesting places. Only a few decades ago, the idea of communicating face-to-face with someone on the other side of the planet seemed impossible. Now, you can pull out your phone and video chat with anyone you wish, regardless of where the person lives. Life has been made a lot easier by the presence of modern technology, especially apps. This is as true of communications as it is of planning for a wedding. If you’re currently preparing for your wedding, you definitely want to explore what tech and apps might be able to help.

There are many exciting paths you can explore when it comes to using technology for the planning phase. Above all else, you definitely are going to want to take a look at which apps are best suited for the job. To help guide you through your journey, take a look at these suggestions for applications you can download to your smartphone or tablet. Finding the perfect apps might make your life a whole lot easier in regards to planning an event you adore.

C’mon Get Happy

When planning for a wedding, there are many different categories you need to keep in the forefront of your mind. You’re going to be looking over your budget, contacting vendors, trying on clothing, sampling food, and generally rushing from one place to another until you finally walk down that aisle. This means you are going to need help with keeping track of everything that is on your schedule so you do not miss out on anything important. A vast majority of the apps out on the market exist for this specific purpose.

Brides and grooms can always benefit from reminders and scheduling assistance. If you are a person who needs to have all of your information condensed into one simple place, an app like WeddingHappy could make sense for you. This app helps you to create a sensible schedule of all the various activities and appointments you have to take care of before your wedding arrives. Seeing the schedule on your phone can help to give you peace of mind and inform you of where you need to be at each step of the journey.

No More Paper 

In the current day and age, there has been a big push to protect the environment. One way people have been approaching this is by discovering new and useful ways of conserving resources like water and trees. The production of paper, for example, tends to lean heavily on the planet’s reserve of trees. With a wedding, a lot of paper is involved. Even when you opt for invitations made from recycled materials, those invitations could wind up in the trash and add to the garbage piling up around the planet.

If you care about the environment and want to make life easier for your wedding, think about using an app like Joy. One of the best features of this application is the option of communicating with your guests via the app itself. The designers have made it easy for your guests to R.S.V.P. electronically, eliminating the need for paper invitations. When you want to help the planet while making your wedding planning a bit easier in the process, Joy could be the app you’ve been looking for.

Tomorrow Is Today

Planning for a wedding might be a stressful situation at times, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t help out there. Using technology to your advantage might completely change the way that you approach your plans. There are countless apps out there designed to help couples. Discover the perfect fit for your needs and give yourself a bit of peace of mind moving forward.

Coming to America: A Guide to American Wedding Venues
There are many spectacular American wedding venues that offer the excitement of a destination wedding but are not as far-flung.

There are many spectacular American wedding venues that offer the excitement of a destination wedding but are not as far-flung.

Destination weddings have long been a popular choice amongst couples who want to see the world while simultaneously tying the knot. While many couples opt to head to far-flung destinations across the planet, you do not have to go to extreme lengths to have a wedding held on foreign shores. In fact, you might simply consider an American wedding as a way to visit some of the most exciting locations and gorgeous venues around. America is a great choice for Canadians looking to throw destination weddings due to its general proximity and wealth of options.

If you haven’t seen much of America, you might not know exactly where to go for your wedding. Luckily, there are some easy ways to get your wheels turning. Take a look at some of the more popular American wedding venues. This can give you a general idea of what might catch your interest and inspire you to find the ideal American destination.

Looking East 

To begin, you might want to think about the East Coast of America. Home to famous cities like New York, Philadelphia, and Boston, the East Coast is packed with amazing locations to consider. A large number of Canadians have been to cities like New York on vacation, and plenty of people want to get married in Manhattan. Unfortunately, it can cost you a small fortune to try and get married within New York City. While it is expensive, it is not impossible.

Instead of opting for a wedding in New York, think about having one on the New Jersey side of the Hudson River. Cities like Hoboken and Jersey City are situated on the Hudson and offer a spectacular view of the Manhattan skyline. On top of this, the venues located in New Jersey often come with smaller price tags than you might have imagined. If you have your heart set on an having your American wedding in New York City, then you need to make sure you are considering your budget and how to best move forward without going broke.

Go West

While the East Coast might be a tad more popular, there are plenty of people around the world who prefer the sunny shores and exciting cities found on the West Coast. Locations like the Pacific Northwest contain gems like Portland and Seattle, cities which have seen huge population booms in recent years. If you and your partner have visited this area before and love the way the natural world mixes with urban environments, then it could prove to be an ideal wedding location for your event.

The cities to the south also have a ton to offer. San Francisco, Los Angeles, and San Diego are three of the most popular cities to be found in the American state of California. When you are looking to get married on some of the most captivating beaches found on the planet, then you most definitely are going to want to take a look at the options available to you in California. As with New York, some of these cities might prove quite expensive. Still, you might find a great fit by looking over venue and travel options early enough.

Fly or Drive to an American Wedding Destination

Throwing a destination wedding is a wonderful opportunity for you and your partner to see a new corner of the world. Your marriage is going to be a journey, so it might be fun to start your adventure from a place you have never been before. If an America wedding sounds like the right fit, be sure to look over all your options and pick a destination that makes the most sense for your tastes and desires.

Innovative Approaches to Your Wedding Photography
There are many new trends in wedding photography worth considering for your special day.

There are many new trends in wedding photography worth considering for your special day.

Are you and your sweetie joining the more than 160,000 couples getting married in Canada in the next year? You might already be thinking of methods to magnify the event’s special moments and have unique memorabilia for years to come. If this sounds like you, check out these new, exciting trends in wedding photography.

Is Film Photography Making a Comeback?

Once the digital revolution was in full swing, some photographers abandoned old-school methods and equipment. Not all professionals completely left these techniques or tools behind, as the industry website SLR Lounge revealed in a January 2017 blog post. Among the five methodologies predicted to rise to the top by the California photography firm Lin & Jirsa, film-based approaches ranked number one on the list. Citing the increasing popularity of the Fujifilm’s Instax camera that is capable of making instant color prints, the duo speculated that film will stay in vogue with its potential for softer images, vintage looks and distinctive color profiles.

Send in the Drones?

With the advent of remotely operated aerial vehicles, drone photography was the next logical step in wedding photography. Like it or not, these aircraft are here to stay, and photographers are repurposing them to take all kinds of stunning overhead photos at formal and semi-formal affairs. The Knot recently described this trend, giving tips and instructions for couples-to-be who wanted to set up their own shoots. If you hire a separate drone photo professional, you’ll need to put him or her in touch with your regular wedding photographer to make sure they coordinate efforts. Nevertheless, Wedding Bells documents that some Canadian firms, such as Toronto’s UProductions, have added this service to their menu of options.

Stop-Motion: Not Just for Claymation Anymore 

The Knot contributor Amy Levin-Epstein revealed several unusual, fascinating tools at an event photographer’s disposal. While stop-motion has been used as a filming and animation technique for several decades, Levin-Epstein detailed how a series of still images can be animated and paired with sound and music. These files can then be shared online as part of a digital wedding album or a social media post.

Taking Photojournalism From Magazines to Weddings

In the previously mentioned SLR Lounge piece, Lin & Jirsa also mentioned photojournalistic methods to make a couple’s wedding day images spectacular and visually appealing. For instance, highly stylized journalism takes advantage of hard lighting techniques, which results in firmer edges and more precisely defined images. In contrast, most modern photos use soft lighting, which is diffused and causes shadows to become more indistinct in the final image. Furthermore, professionals might occasionally rely on assisted photojournalism practices, which allow one to “guide” subjects into crafting what looks like a “candid” moment.

Stylized “Selfies” for Social Media Sharing 

While photographers aren’t necessarily the ones shooting guests’ or couples’ selfies, they can incorporate these images into a stylized approach to the total wedding day package. “Selfie” stations are becoming more common, and photo professionals sometimes take pictures of invitees and the newlyweds capturing their selfies. This can add to a candid, spontaneous feel to memories of your affair. Not only will your friends have cool photos to share on social media (with your permission, of course), but you’ll crack a smile and reminisce while flipping through images of them snapping their selfies. 

Get Creative

Engaged couples can be incredibly creative when they’re planning to tie the knot, and that includes finding ways to make their wedding photography stand out. Special events photographers are employing innovative methods to capture the emotional quality, spirit and grandeur of these events. Newer techniques such as a traditional film-based method, a photojournalism approach, stop-motion shoots and drone photography are being embraced by professionals across North America.

 

Doing Your Gift Registry Right
Do your gift registry the right way by planning ahead.

Do your gift registry the right way by planning ahead.

A wedding is a lovely experience for many reasons. While it might not be your primary incentive for tying the knot, you may be a bit excited thinking about all of the gifts that will be coming your way for your special day. Many couples opt to create a gift registry at their favorite shops in order to help guests find the perfect gifts. If you and your partner are planning on creating a registry, it stands to reason that you are going to be looking for some very specific items.

Most couples use their gift registry as a chance to ask for the items and appliances that will help them begin their married life together. This means finding gadgets and equipment for rooms like the kitchen. If you want to make a registry that you feel satisfied with, it can be a good idea to take a moment to think about how you can make the most of the process. Explore some of these ideas and see if you can craft a registry that gets you the best possible items for your future. 

The First Step 

There are many common mistakes that couples make when attempting to create registries for their weddings. For one, most couples assume that they should only be asking for items that they do not yet own. While this might be a great place to start, it does not completely capture the best way of thinking about your needs. You might own a blender already, but it also might be a blender that you have had in your possession for many years. This means it is already outdated and maybe even a bit worn.

Instead of simply creating a gift registry for all of the items that you do not yet own, think about putting items on your registry that you would like to upgrade. That blender in your kitchen may not last as long as you think. By asking for upgraded versions of items that you already own, you are helping to modernize your home and turn it into an up-to-date space you can feel proud of. 

Entertaining

Appliances are some of the more common items that couples put on their gift registry, but there are other options worth thinking over. Dishware is also a common item to see on the list. Unfortunately, plenty of couples wind up making mistakes when they are attempting to register for plates, bowls, and cups. Since it is only you and your partner, you might assume that you only need two of everything. While this is understandable, you are forgetting that there are going to be times when you invite guests over for a meal.

Register for at least four, if not more, of each piece of flatware or stemware that you are considering. This will help you to have enough in your future home for when you are entertaining guests. It can also come in handy when your family starts to grow. Once you have children and they start to get older, you are going to be happy that you have enough plates and bowls in the house for each meal.

Stay Open About Your Gift Registry

You also might want to focus on appliances and gadgets that serve more than one purpose. A waffle maker might be on your radar, but it only makes waffles. This means that you will have a large single-use appliance in your kitchen taking up space. Instead, think about appliances that can serve multiple functions at once.  

When it comes to registering for your wedding, you want to be sure that you are asking for items you can get some use out of. Look into all of your options and see if you can create a gift registry that will make you and your partner feel content.

Why Finances Matter Long Before Your Wedding
Finances matter long before the wedding takes place.

Finances matter long before the wedding takes place.

The idea of marriage has changed a lot over the centuries. Once upon a time, most couples wed for the sake of their families and futures. When two families would join together as a result of a marital union, it would often bring forth plenty of financial benefits to both sides. In fact, many brides and grooms were sized up by potential partners based solely on how much wealth or property their families possessed. These days, the reasons people marry are different, but there are some similarities when it comes to financial matters.

Getting married means sharing everything with your significant other. This, of course, means finances will often be included. People usually get weird when pressed to talk about money. If you and your significant other have not had a conversation about money and the future, then now is an important time to begin. Without this discussion, you could be in for some upsetting or confusing surprises that add stress to the bonds of marital bliss. Take a moment to look over these tips and see what makes the most sense for your situation.

The Practical Side

When you are marrying someone, you are taking on everything this person embodies or possesses and you are making it a part of your life. The good and the bad come along with this. If your partner has a lot of debt, then you might be taking on this debt with your union. Before you get married, you are going to want to sit down with your partner and begin to discuss financial matters and how you will both be impacted by the wedding.

It might not even matter much to you that your partner is currently in debt. Still, you could want to make a plan to help remove this situation from your lives. Having this talk about money early can help both of you to make plans for the future. Discuss how to get out of debt and what you can both do to create a chunk of savings that will last a good long while. The earlier you have this talk, the less stressful it may wind up being when you enter married life. 

Finances After the Wedding

In many cases, a talk about finances is about a lot more than money. You and your significant other might not really have a clear idea of what either of you would like to do for work after marriage. When you both work all the time, it can make it difficult to take the next step in your relationship. Namely, this means finding time to have and raise children. Now is the right time for you to start these conversations. Hopefully by this point the topic of children has come up. If not, now is your chance.

Children are quite a big responsibility to take on. Not only do you need to have the time to raise them, you also need a significant amount of money. During your talk about your future finances, you may want to breach the topic of children. Discuss the best possible paths for making your dreams into a reality. You might discover that it is possible for one of you to work and the other to take care of the family. You’ll never know until you have the talk.

Tomorrow Starts Today 

Most people feel weird discussing money. While this is a natural feeling, it also can be problematic to avoid these conversations with your significant other. To truly enjoy married life, it is a good idea to have open conversations about finances early. Beginning this chat with enough time to spare can allow both of you a bit of room to figure out any snags or issues that you might predict along the way.