So you’ve gone and done it. You were a really great friend to someone and performed your duties as a bridesmaid exceptionally. This included buying a dress of questionable fashion that you would’ve never gotten on your own. Now the thrill is gone and there’s no way that piece of clothing is staying in your closet. Whether you’re a sustainability-minded person or not, you don’t just want to throw the outfit away. Consider these ideas for repurposing an old bridesmaid dress.
Sell It
You probably paid for the dress, so why not get some of your money back? Websites such as eBay, ThredUp, and others allow you to advertise clothes for resale. If your dress is in good condition and from a label that’s in high demand, you may be surprised what you can fetch for it. Different websites will require different levels of effort when it comes to creating the listing. Take a flattering photo of your dress or a selfie, post it online, and see what happens. You may be saving another bridesmaid some cash.
Donate It
One person’s trash can become another person’s treasure. Donating the dress to a local charity or resale shop is easy enough, but consider that your threads may be the basis for a fabulous outfit for a prom or other event like a sweet sixteen party or quinceañera. Organizations such as Toronto-based The Corsage Project provide prom dresses and makeovers to high school students who can’t afford to go. Your donation could help someone else’s day more special.
Maybe your outfit has a unique appearance that doesn’t lend itself to a second life as formalwear. Theater companies and performance troupes often need gently used clothes. Consider donating to an organization such as Calgary Young Peoples Theatre or the drama club at a local school or college. Someone somewhere can make great use of that outfit.
Repurpose It
Another option is to reuse or repurpose your dress as a Halloween costume. You could go as a bridesmaid or take inspiration from film, television, or literature. Instead of the Bride of Frankenstein, you could be the “Bridesmaid of Frankenstein.” Get creative with accessories, hair, and makeup, and have fun. You already have the main part of your costume, saving you some money in the process. If you don’t think you’ll get enough mileage out of a Halloween outfit, consider making cushion covers out of the fabric.
Alter It
If you’re more practical and creative, consider making alterations so that the dress can be a regular part of your wardrobe. The classic Disney animated film “Cinderella” featured a ballgown made from cast-off garments and accessories. Shows like “Project Runway” and “Making the Cut” sometimes feature aspiring designers making new garments out of old ones. Scratch your creative itch and make it happen with some scissors, a needle, and thread. Turn a long dress into something appropriate for a hot date or cocktail event.
Gift It
Married couples will often hold onto items from their wedding day as keepsakes. Items such as wedding programs, party favors, and even pieces of wedding cake are common mementos. Consider giving your dress back to the bride as a keepsake. You can gift it in its original form or send it back reborn as a quilt or cushion. Make things all the more special by sending it as an anniversary present.
When you were a bridesmaid, you stepped up and committed to wearing something that wasn’t in line with your tastes. You paid for a dress and now you can do something else with it. Consider these creative ideas for giving a one-off outfit new life.
When you’ve decided to tie the knot, there are many decisions to make. Beyond a few rules related to the legality of your union, Canada doesn’t restrict wedding customs and details, including attire. As you’re planning and evaluating, you’ll need to think about the type of fabrics used in your outfits for the big day.
Factors To Consider
Fabric selection can make or break your nuptials. Some fabrics may look great in a photo, but they may not be as comfortable or practical as others, especially for long wear. The way fabric looks is important, but carefully consider the date, time, and venue when making choices. Some fabrics work well with structured garments, while others lend themselves to draping. It’s your wedding day, and while it’s all about the two of you, do consider the needs of others who are participating.
Fabrics You’re Sure To Love
Think about these materials for your wedding-day outfits:
Charmeuse: If you’re looking for a light fabric that feels luxurious, charmeuse is the fabric for you. Although typically made of silk, synthetic versions also exist. Garments made from this cloth tend to have a “slinky” look and feel that’s fabulous, but they can be unforgiving when it comes to hiding details.
Chiffon: Noted for its lightweight and sheer look, this woven fabric is often a go-to as an overlay to weightier fabrics. Chiffon can be worn in multiple layers for effect, but it is easy to snag.
Lace: When it comes to an elegant touch, few fabrics can compare to lace. Known for its open weave, lace tends to work as an overlay or a detail for a dress made of more substantial fabric. Different types of lace exist, varying in detail and weight. Lace also snags easily.
Organza: You can think of organza as a stiffer version of chiffon. Whereas chiffon drapes easily, dressmakers choose organza for more structured gowns. Despite this, it is a very lightweight fabric that lends itself well to warm-weather events.
Satin: Technically not a fiber, satin refers to a finish of a fabric made up of silk, polyester, or other synthetic fibers. Satin is noted for its versatility and durability, working especially well in the cooler parts of the year. The material looks great ruched, draped, or in ballroom-style gowns.
Tulle: Regarded for its light, netting-like appearance, tulle is a very delicate fabric that pulls or snags easily. Garments made of tulle have a very airy and ethereal style.
Fabrics That “Suit” You
When it comes to suits, tuxedos, and sportscoats, think about these fabrics:
Cashmere: A 100% cashmere suit is very soft and elegant, but the “shiny” look may not be what you’re going for. A blend of cashmere with another fabric such as wool often provides the right combination of softness, warmth, and body.
Cotton: For all-around comfort and breathability, you can’t go wrong with cotton. If your style is more casual, cotton suits the bill.
Linen: For outdoor daytime gatherings, a linen suit works really well; however, this lightweight fabric also wrinkles very easily. While a few wrinkles can be part of the charm, a light-colored suit may look worse for wear after a long day.
Silk: Suits made of silk convey luxury and comfort. Generally more expensive, silk suits are also nice for temperature control.
Velvet: Coats made of velvet are especially touchable. This breathable fabric offers an elegant look that coordinates well with denim for a quirky yet stylish effect.
Wool: When it comes to suits, wool reigns supreme. Noted for softness and versatility, wool suits are appropriate at any time of the year.
When it comes to clothing, details matter. This is especially true for the fabric in your wedding-day outfits. While appearance is important, be sure to consider other factors such as comfort, temperature, and various body shapes.
When it comes to marriage ceremonies, perhaps one of the most iconic symbols of the event is the traditional white wedding gown. Settling on a particular gown is often a major milestone and expense in preparing for the big day. Finding your wedding dress can be a group activity involving the participation (and opinions) of loved ones. There may even be an expectation that you will wear an heirloom garment that has been passed down in your family. However, the reality is that not everyone is into the classic white dress. Here are some other ideas to consider when you’re not feeling the idea of a white gown.
Change Color
Not everyone is into white as a color (or absence of color) for their nuptials. Consider wearing a gown in another color altogether. Is there a favorite shade that complements your skin tone or the color of your hair and eyes? Make that the basis of your color story for your wedding attire. You can find a dress that has the same silhouette of a gown, but in a hue that is more in line with your personal taste. Remember that it’s your special day. You can do whatever you want.
Ditch the gown and Suit Up
Perhaps color isn’t the issue and it’s more about the silhouette for you. Consider wearing a pantsuit. You’re in control, and the right pantsuit conveys a sense of power, letting people know that you’re the boss (or one of the bosses) on your big day. You might even take things a step further out of the ordinary by wearing a white suit or tuxedo. A power suit has been a go-to for many celebrity weddings, to the point that you may be able to shop for such an outfit at the same place you’d find a dress. Get your suit tailored for a perfect, flattering fit.
Jump to It
A jumpsuit provides an alternative that sits between a wedding dress and a full suit. Jumpsuits come in various colors, styles and fabric weights, making them an especially nice choice for both outdoor and indoor occasions at any time of the year. You can keep things light and breezy for a summery soiree, or go for something elegant with lacy details, merging gown sensibilities with the practicality of a jumpsuit.
Serve a Two-Piece Meal
Wedding gowns can be stuffy and restrictive. A two-piece outfit gives you options to maximize flexibility and versatility. You can mix and match different colors, textures, styles and designers to suit your sartorial mood. Two-piece combinations can be customized for the weather demands of a certain season or destination. Your top could be a sweater, a blouse or a crop top, while your bottom is a skirt, pants or even shorts. For additional dimension, you can also play with layering.
Go Shorter
It could be that you’re willing to say yes to a different type of dress. A cocktail dress can be a fun, cheeky alternative to the typical gown. This particular choice has the benefit of being dressy while also being less fussy, restrictive and expensive. Cocktail dresses come in a variety of lengths, giving you the choice to decide how much leg to show on your special day. An added bonus is that these outfits can be comfortably worn for the wedding, the reception and for honeymoon travel. Go with your favorite designer’s ready-to-wear outfit or choose a bespoke option that reflects your personality and unique sense of style.
Even if you’re someone who tends to lean traditional when it comes to tying the knot, you’re free to do your own thing for the wedding outfit. It’s your big day, and you should feel both comfortable and beautiful, whatever you decide to wear. If a traditional white gown is going to increase your stress on the big day, just say no!
Putting together a wedding is no small job. Even the most intimate of affairs with short guest lists require effort. With so many different responsibilities to keep track of, you may find yourself a bit stressed out by all the wedding planning. One way to relieve some of this frustration is by thinking about which tasks need to be taken care of right away and which can wait until later. The most pressing matters like time-sensitive decisions are the ones on which you should dedicate your energy. Everything else can happen when you have more time and mental space.
Take a look at these responsibilities that don’t need to be addressed with any kind of immediacy. Putting off these tasks until a later time allows you to focus on the more pressing decisions that need to be made.
Buying the Outfit
After getting engaged, plenty of couples want to rush out and find the outfits they will wear when they tie the knot. Though brides are usually painted as being obsessed with finding the right dress, an equal number of grooms are quite particular when it comes to the look, cut, and style of their tuxes. People like to take care of this task early when planning a wedding, but it actually does not need to happen until later. The reason many couples jump into this right away is because it can be fun to shop.
Instead of running to a boutique or scouring online shops, use the earliest part of your engagement period to research different style ideas. Tasks like setting a date, selecting a venue, and speaking with caterers all take priority over picking your wedding attire. Dedicate your energy to more pressing matters, and in the meantime keep yourself tuned into interesting blogs related to wedding style. This will give your later search for your outfit a bit more direction.
Arranging the Seating
Here’s the thing: Seating charts are waking nightmares for many couples. If you both are lucky enough to come from families that get along, then this might not be the case. However, most people have to do some acrobatics when it comes to creating a layout where guests will be sitting far away from individuals who might cause conflict. Despite how involved this task can be, it is far from one of the first things you should be thinking about while planning your big day.
In truth, you need to have your venue booked before you even start thinking about the seating chart. What’s more, you really can’t start creating a layout until you know how many guests will be able to attend. No matter how stressed you are about making the perfect seating arrangement, put this job off until a bit down the line.
Planning the Honeymoon
This might seem like a given, but you really shouldn’t plan out your honeymoon until you’ve taken care of a majority of your wedding tasks. The honeymoon traditionally happens right after the wedding finishes, but this doesn’t mean it needs to be connected to the planning process. A discussion about where you would like to go and how much you both want to spend on the trip is fine. However, you should really delay making any concrete plans for your honeymoon until you feel confident that your nuptials are all set and ready.
After getting engaged, it is natural to feel a rush of excitement and anticipation for all that is in store. In order to maintain your drive and not get overwhelmed by all the tasks that need to be taken on, be sure to focus only on the most pressing matters at first. Pacing yourself in this way will help you see better results and keep your stress levels in a manageable place.
Wedding veils can add an aura of grandeur to your wedding attire, and may enhance your wardrobe depending on your beliefs and tastes.
In 2015, Wedding Bellsestimated that around 160,000 weddings are performed annually in Canada. For many brides, assembling their attire for the special day is a mix of major decisions and minor details. That includes whether to include wedding veils, garments once taken for granted as automatic parts of a bride’s nuptial attire. Whether you wear this iconic piece of nuptial apparel or not is your choice. As you deliberate, it’s helpful to know some of the histories behind the practice of wearing wedding veils, plus the style and fabric options at your disposal.
Why Have Brides Worn Veils?
In Western weddings, veils have been a ubiquitous staple in bridal wear. While there are many possible origins of this custom, most writers suggest that they were worn either for superstitious, practical, religious or surreptitious reasons. Some say brides donned them in ancient Rome to keep evil spirits at bay, while others believe the practice may have been adopted to prevent grooms from seeing their future spouses until the last possible minute. Meanwhile, others point to the symbolism of purity and virginity, both in religious and social contexts, along with potentially troubling implications that they may be a relic from patriarchal times when women were seen as property. It’s also been suggested that brides may have worn them to keep angry, rival lovers from spotting and abducting them from their own ceremonies!
The Pros and Cons of Wedding Veils
If your special day is veil-optional, you might have several reasons to pick them—and probably just as many to ditch them. On one hand, your wedding is probably the only time you’ll get to wear such a delicate, gorgeous accessory. Your entrance into the venue while draped in its fabric, as well as the moment when it’s lifted from your face, can provide stunning points of drama in your ceremony. Moreover, most versions are detachable and are friendly on your budget. Conversely, you may find the traditional meanings behind them distasteful or contrary to your beliefs on gender equality. On a more practical note, they can be unwieldy, easily tossed about by the wind or becoming a prime attraction for insects of the flying, stinging kind.
An Endless Array of Styles and Options
Understanding the kinds of wedding veils available on the market can aid in choosing the best one for your wedding day ensemble. The Knot provides a great guide on some common lengths and cuts. Shorter versions include the birdcage, a unique option that pairs well with vintage gowns, and the blusher, a single-layer veil with a hemline that ends just short of the tip of your nose. Longer varieties include flyaway, elbow and fingertip veils. Cathedral and chapel lengths are usually the longest versions, adding an extra dose of grandeur to formal wedding gowns.
Fabric also contributes to a veil’s look and feel. The VeilStyle Blog published a thorough resource on typical options such as tulle, nylon, chiffon and organza. One kind of nylon material known as “Bridal Illusion” is translucent, making it ideal for photographs. Some varieties, such as silk tulle, drape well but are more fragile. Silk chiffon, a natural fiber, is best for single-layer designs due to its heavier weight. Finally, organza is crisp, with a fine texture and a beautiful sheen.
Religious Significance or Wedding Day Drama
Wedding veils can sometimes evoke some “spirited” debate over how, when and by whom they should be worn. If you opt to incorporate one in your ensemble, you have a huge range of cuts, materials and colors from which to select. Personal preference, religious beliefs and sartorial sensibilities may dictate whether you don one or not on your special day.
Incorporating surprises into your wedding can be a great way to spice things up and give your guests a memorable experience.
Attending a wedding can be a lovely experience. Guests have the benefit of going to this type of event and dancing, drinking, eating, and engaging with a fun night centered on love. Of course, plenty of people have been to countless weddings in their lives. If you’re planning for your big day, then you might want to think about incorporating surprises into the night’s itinerary. This can be a great way to transform your nuptials into something a little more exciting than most people will be anticipating.
There are plenty of simple and effective ways to surprise your guests. Consider these surprises and find a fun way to keep the people at your wedding guessing.
A Whole New Outfit
Most couples spend a lot of time and money on the outfits they wear on their wedding day. The dress a bride selects, for example, tends to be an important decision. While guests at your event are definitely going to comment on how wonderful you and your significant other look as you walk down the aisle, you can squeeze a bit more excitement out of your look than you might think. A costume change can be a fantastic way to show off a second look to your friends and family members.
It is also important to think about how a costume change is more than simply an opportunity for you to wear another amazing outfit. For many brides, dancing during a wedding can be an impossible task. With so many flailing, drunken bodies on the dance floor, a bride might feel as if her dress will be ruined by one simple misstep. By changing into an outfit that lends itself to dancing, you are putting your fears to rest while also giving yourself a chance to freely bust a move.
Dessert Surprises
What you wear will definitely have an impact on guests, but there are other areas on which you can focus if you want to offer surprises. The food at your event will be a feature that people will remember. To really wow the crowd, you may want to play around with the menu in a few unexpected ways. Your caterers will be able to provide a delicious dinner, but you can work wonders if you decide to focus your energy on re-imagining the way you provide dessert.
In addition to the wedding cake, think about what sweet treats will leave your guests smiling and satiated. An ice cream sundae bar is always an excellent choice, but you can even go a few steps beyond this idea. A milkshake bar can be a great way to give your guests a delicious, creamy way to wash down the cake and other desserts. Plus, you can even work with the bar to offer a special dessert cocktail that guests can sip on as the evening winds to a close.
The Afterparty
Finally, when the night has ended, you may have guests who want to keep the party going. Hosting an “afterparty” is the best way to make sure you and your new spouse are involved with all the excitement. Whether you decide to host this party in your hotel room or you bring the whole crew to a local bar, make sure you are offering plenty of snacks and drinks to the crowd and you’ll be sure to see a satisfied group.
Surprising the guests at your wedding isn’t necessary, but it can definitely shake things up and deliver a memorable night people will be talking about for a long while. Find an idea that works for you, and see what surprises you can offer the crowd.
Wedding industry vendors jumped on the online commerce bandwagon long ago, but is it wise to buy everything for your wedding online?
Thanks to the rapid advancement of technology and e-commerce, nearly anything can be bought online: groceries, movie tickets, medications, music, vehicles, and more. Wedding industry vendors jumped on the online commerce bandwagon long ago, making it possible to do everything from selecting and printing invitations to purchasing gowns and formal suits. E-commerce offers valuable perks such as convenience and saving money, but is it wise to buy everything for your wedding online? The answer to this question isn’t as straightforward as you might think.
Essential Privacy and Security Tips
More than 80 percent of Canadian brides bought at least one wedding-related item online, according to a Weddingbells survey published in 2015. Wedding décor and supplies, favors, invitations, and fashion accessories are some of the most common purchases. However, couples’ and attendants’ attire also end up on many nearlyweds’ online shopping lists. Many save time, gasoline, and money while discovering great finds that they can’t get from local retailers.
Sounds convenient and easy, right? Well, you still must carefully choose which vendors will get your hard-earned cash. LifeLock, an American identity theft protection company, offers several smart tips for safe online shopping:
Purchase only from trusted websites.
Do your homework about each vendor. Check for legitimate contact information, and be sure to read online customer reviews.
Verify that the website has privacy protection and SSL encryption enabled.
Don’t give out too much personal information.
Be wary of extremely low prices and “too good to be true” deals.
Also, LifeLock advises that it’s better to use a credit card for your online purchases, as you’ll steer clear of scammers siphoning funds from your primary bank account should your data become compromised. The Financial Consumer Agencyreveals that your maximum liability for unauthorized charges cannot be more than $50. Also, you will be reimbursed in full if you took appropriate privacy precautions. To protect yourself, monitor your credit card accounts frequently and take immediate action if you notice unauthorized charges or don’t receive your merchandise.
Helpful Hints for Online Attire Purchases
A blog post by Young Hip and Married, a Vancouver-area wedding services provider, divulges that the average wedding dress costs $1,779 in Canada. The Better Business Bureau of Western Ontario adds that the average wedding tuxedo rental is $297, while Huffington Post contributor Andrea Traynor mentions that made-to-measure suits usually cost at least $500 and bespoke suit prices start at around $2,000.
Most of these figures aren’t as extravagant as the starting price of a Vera Wang gown or an Armani suit, but tighter budgets are one reason why many couples are turning to the internet to find their wedding apparel. Some of the same general tips for online shopping apply, but NerdWallet writer Laura McMullen shares more wise advice to help online buyers get the most for their money:
Review the retailer’s policies, especially on returns and expected delivery time frames.
Investigate your fabric options. Knowing each material’s basic properties can help you choose garments that are appropriate for your season and venue.
Shop for pieces that best flatter your body type.
Take your measurements, and follow each company’s sizing guidelines.
Careful Online Shopping Is Key
Online vendors can make your search for wedding supplies and attire easier, but it pays to take some precautions as you shop. Such safeguards include researching each company, purchasing only from trusted suppliers, and confirming that retailers are using the appropriate security protocols. Buying wedding attire can be especially tricky, but you can score good-quality finds if you know your measurements, choose garments that fit properly, and select fabrics that mesh with your event’s season and desired aesthetic. With these best practices, you’ll find the goods you need while avoiding fraud and misunderstandings.
To discover a wedding dress that perfectly encapsulates your persona, look into some of the latest and hottest fashions while you explore your options.
weThe right outfit can really change the way a person feels about an event. When it comes to your wedding, for example, you are going to end up putting many hours into searching for the ideal wedding dress. For brides, this means taking time to “say yes to the dress.” Bridal gowns and dresses have remained somewhat consistent over the years in regards to general style and color. While brides might have been wearing white to weddings for quite a bit of time, you should feel free to explore your options.
Each year, new and interesting design trends come about for brides to consider for their wedding dress. To discover a dress you feel perfectly encapsulates your persona, it might be a useful idea to think about some of these latest and more interesting fashions. Accessorize your dress in the right manner, play around with color, and personalize your outfit for your own special day.
Like a Princess
Though it might seem somewhat cliché, many people want to feel like royalty on the day they get married. While you might not have been born into the correct lineage to ascend to the throne, you definitely can create a look of a noteworthy aristocrat. One way to tackle this goal is by investing in accessories for your wedding dress. Lately, a hot trend for wedding fashions has the bride adopting all sorts of interesting accessories in order to fully flesh out her appearance while walking down the aisle. This task is simple when you explore options like princess capes.
Princess capes, also known as “royal capes,” have been making a huge splash at special events all over the world. While you might not be next in line for the throne, you definitely can cultivate an appearance of decadence and class with a few small touches. If you believe your outfit will benefit from this addition, take time to consider all the style choices available to you and set out on finding the ideal match for your cape.
Ruffles in Your Wedding Dress
The style of the dress is something to play around with during the preparation stages of your wedding. In 2017, a number of prolific designers showcased ruffled bridal dresses at an array of large fashion shows. The designers, including such hot names as Vera Wang and Casablanca, have helped to launch a movement in regards to upcoming weddings. Brides all over have been rushing to boutiques and retail shops to get fitted for dresses with sweetheart necklines and layers of thin and dainty ruffles.
Though this option can seem appealing, it is important to remember it is not going to look wonderful on everyone. Some design strategies can come across as awkward or clunky on specific body types. When you are picking your dress, it is best to have yourself fitted by a professional so you can get a better feel for how the dress can be altered. Buying a dress online can also be a good option as long as you understand you might need to put a lot of money down to have it altered.
Touch of Blue
Finally, current designs are pushing away from the concept of a “white wedding.” Though innumerable brides still opt to wear white, many are considering other choices for their looks. Lately, a big trend is to use a slight splash of blue in the dresses. In most situations, the blue is very faint and simply adds a bit of life and dimension to the dress. This might be an ideal way to bring some color to the event.
Picking the right wedding dress for your special day can be a lot of work. Get ready to “say yes to the dress” by thinking over all of the latest style and design trends and landing on an option that appeals most to you.
So you’ve gone and done it. You were a really great friend to someone and performed your duties as a bridesmaid exceptionally. This included buying a dress of questionable fashion that you would’ve never gotten on your own. Now the thrill is gone and there’s no way that piece of clothing is staying in your closet. Whether you’re a sustainability-minded person or not, you don’t just want to throw the outfit away. Consider these ideas for repurposing an old bridesmaid dress.
Sell It
You probably paid for the dress, so why not get some of your money back? Websites such as eBay, ThredUp, and others allow you to advertise clothes for resale. If your dress is in good condition and from a label that’s in high demand, you may be surprised what you can fetch for it. Different websites will require different levels of effort when it comes to creating the listing. Take a flattering photo of your dress or a selfie, post it online, and see what happens. You may be saving another bridesmaid some cash.
Donate It
One person’s trash can become another person’s treasure. Donating the dress to a local charity or resale shop is easy enough, but consider that your threads may be the basis for a fabulous outfit for a prom or other event like a sweet sixteen party or quinceañera. Organizations such as Toronto-based The Corsage Project provide prom dresses and makeovers to high school students who can’t afford to go. Your donation could help someone else’s day more special.
Maybe your outfit has a unique appearance that doesn’t lend itself to a second life as formalwear. Theater companies and performance troupes often need gently used clothes. Consider donating to an organization such as Calgary Young Peoples Theatre or the drama club at a local school or college. Someone somewhere can make great use of that outfit.
Repurpose It
Another option is to reuse or repurpose your dress as a Halloween costume. You could go as a bridesmaid or take inspiration from film, television, or literature. Instead of the Bride of Frankenstein, you could be the “Bridesmaid of Frankenstein.” Get creative with accessories, hair, and makeup, and have fun. You already have the main part of your costume, saving you some money in the process. If you don’t think you’ll get enough mileage out of a Halloween outfit, consider making cushion covers out of the fabric.
Alter It
If you’re more practical and creative, consider making alterations so that the dress can be a regular part of your wardrobe. The classic Disney animated film “Cinderella” featured a ballgown made from cast-off garments and accessories. Shows like “Project Runway” and “Making the Cut” sometimes feature aspiring designers making new garments out of old ones. Scratch your creative itch and make it happen with some scissors, a needle, and thread. Turn a long dress into something appropriate for a hot date or cocktail event.
Gift It
Married couples will often hold onto items from their wedding day as keepsakes. Items such as wedding programs, party favors, and even pieces of wedding cake are common mementos. Consider giving your dress back to the bride as a keepsake. You can gift it in its original form or send it back reborn as a quilt or cushion. Make things all the more special by sending it as an anniversary present.
When you were a bridesmaid, you stepped up and committed to wearing something that wasn’t in line with your tastes. You paid for a dress and now you can do something else with it. Consider these creative ideas for giving a one-off outfit new life.
When you’ve decided to tie the knot, there are many decisions to make. Beyond a few rules related to the legality of your union, Canada doesn’t restrict wedding customs and details, including attire. As you’re planning and evaluating, you’ll need to think about the type of fabrics used in your outfits for the big day.
Factors To Consider
Fabric selection can make or break your nuptials. Some fabrics may look great in a photo, but they may not be as comfortable or practical as others, especially for long wear. The way fabric looks is important, but carefully consider the date, time, and venue when making choices. Some fabrics work well with structured garments, while others lend themselves to draping. It’s your wedding day, and while it’s all about the two of you, do consider the needs of others who are participating.
Fabrics You’re Sure To Love
Think about these materials for your wedding-day outfits:
Charmeuse: If you’re looking for a light fabric that feels luxurious, charmeuse is the fabric for you. Although typically made of silk, synthetic versions also exist. Garments made from this cloth tend to have a “slinky” look and feel that’s fabulous, but they can be unforgiving when it comes to hiding details.
Chiffon: Noted for its lightweight and sheer look, this woven fabric is often a go-to as an overlay to weightier fabrics. Chiffon can be worn in multiple layers for effect, but it is easy to snag.
Lace: When it comes to an elegant touch, few fabrics can compare to lace. Known for its open weave, lace tends to work as an overlay or a detail for a dress made of more substantial fabric. Different types of lace exist, varying in detail and weight. Lace also snags easily.
Organza: You can think of organza as a stiffer version of chiffon. Whereas chiffon drapes easily, dressmakers choose organza for more structured gowns. Despite this, it is a very lightweight fabric that lends itself well to warm-weather events.
Satin: Technically not a fiber, satin refers to a finish of a fabric made up of silk, polyester, or other synthetic fibers. Satin is noted for its versatility and durability, working especially well in the cooler parts of the year. The material looks great ruched, draped, or in ballroom-style gowns.
Tulle: Regarded for its light, netting-like appearance, tulle is a very delicate fabric that pulls or snags easily. Garments made of tulle have a very airy and ethereal style.
Fabrics That “Suit” You
When it comes to suits, tuxedos, and sportscoats, think about these fabrics:
Cashmere: A 100% cashmere suit is very soft and elegant, but the “shiny” look may not be what you’re going for. A blend of cashmere with another fabric such as wool often provides the right combination of softness, warmth, and body.
Cotton: For all-around comfort and breathability, you can’t go wrong with cotton. If your style is more casual, cotton suits the bill.
Linen: For outdoor daytime gatherings, a linen suit works really well; however, this lightweight fabric also wrinkles very easily. While a few wrinkles can be part of the charm, a light-colored suit may look worse for wear after a long day.
Silk: Suits made of silk convey luxury and comfort. Generally more expensive, silk suits are also nice for temperature control.
Velvet: Coats made of velvet are especially touchable. This breathable fabric offers an elegant look that coordinates well with denim for a quirky yet stylish effect.
Wool: When it comes to suits, wool reigns supreme. Noted for softness and versatility, wool suits are appropriate at any time of the year.
When it comes to clothing, details matter. This is especially true for the fabric in your wedding-day outfits. While appearance is important, be sure to consider other factors such as comfort, temperature, and various body shapes.
When it comes to marriage ceremonies, perhaps one of the most iconic symbols of the event is the traditional white wedding gown. Settling on a particular gown is often a major milestone and expense in preparing for the big day. Finding your wedding dress can be a group activity involving the participation (and opinions) of loved ones. There may even be an expectation that you will wear an heirloom garment that has been passed down in your family. However, the reality is that not everyone is into the classic white dress. Here are some other ideas to consider when you’re not feeling the idea of a white gown.
Change Color
Not everyone is into white as a color (or absence of color) for their nuptials. Consider wearing a gown in another color altogether. Is there a favorite shade that complements your skin tone or the color of your hair and eyes? Make that the basis of your color story for your wedding attire. You can find a dress that has the same silhouette of a gown, but in a hue that is more in line with your personal taste. Remember that it’s your special day. You can do whatever you want.
Ditch the gown and Suit Up
Perhaps color isn’t the issue and it’s more about the silhouette for you. Consider wearing a pantsuit. You’re in control, and the right pantsuit conveys a sense of power, letting people know that you’re the boss (or one of the bosses) on your big day. You might even take things a step further out of the ordinary by wearing a white suit or tuxedo. A power suit has been a go-to for many celebrity weddings, to the point that you may be able to shop for such an outfit at the same place you’d find a dress. Get your suit tailored for a perfect, flattering fit.
Jump to It
A jumpsuit provides an alternative that sits between a wedding dress and a full suit. Jumpsuits come in various colors, styles and fabric weights, making them an especially nice choice for both outdoor and indoor occasions at any time of the year. You can keep things light and breezy for a summery soiree, or go for something elegant with lacy details, merging gown sensibilities with the practicality of a jumpsuit.
Serve a Two-Piece Meal
Wedding gowns can be stuffy and restrictive. A two-piece outfit gives you options to maximize flexibility and versatility. You can mix and match different colors, textures, styles and designers to suit your sartorial mood. Two-piece combinations can be customized for the weather demands of a certain season or destination. Your top could be a sweater, a blouse or a crop top, while your bottom is a skirt, pants or even shorts. For additional dimension, you can also play with layering.
Go Shorter
It could be that you’re willing to say yes to a different type of dress. A cocktail dress can be a fun, cheeky alternative to the typical gown. This particular choice has the benefit of being dressy while also being less fussy, restrictive and expensive. Cocktail dresses come in a variety of lengths, giving you the choice to decide how much leg to show on your special day. An added bonus is that these outfits can be comfortably worn for the wedding, the reception and for honeymoon travel. Go with your favorite designer’s ready-to-wear outfit or choose a bespoke option that reflects your personality and unique sense of style.
Even if you’re someone who tends to lean traditional when it comes to tying the knot, you’re free to do your own thing for the wedding outfit. It’s your big day, and you should feel both comfortable and beautiful, whatever you decide to wear. If a traditional white gown is going to increase your stress on the big day, just say no!
Putting together a wedding is no small job. Even the most intimate of affairs with short guest lists require effort. With so many different responsibilities to keep track of, you may find yourself a bit stressed out by all the wedding planning. One way to relieve some of this frustration is by thinking about which tasks need to be taken care of right away and which can wait until later. The most pressing matters like time-sensitive decisions are the ones on which you should dedicate your energy. Everything else can happen when you have more time and mental space.
Take a look at these responsibilities that don’t need to be addressed with any kind of immediacy. Putting off these tasks until a later time allows you to focus on the more pressing decisions that need to be made.
Buying the Outfit
After getting engaged, plenty of couples want to rush out and find the outfits they will wear when they tie the knot. Though brides are usually painted as being obsessed with finding the right dress, an equal number of grooms are quite particular when it comes to the look, cut, and style of their tuxes. People like to take care of this task early when planning a wedding, but it actually does not need to happen until later. The reason many couples jump into this right away is because it can be fun to shop.
Instead of running to a boutique or scouring online shops, use the earliest part of your engagement period to research different style ideas. Tasks like setting a date, selecting a venue, and speaking with caterers all take priority over picking your wedding attire. Dedicate your energy to more pressing matters, and in the meantime keep yourself tuned into interesting blogs related to wedding style. This will give your later search for your outfit a bit more direction.
Arranging the Seating
Here’s the thing: Seating charts are waking nightmares for many couples. If you both are lucky enough to come from families that get along, then this might not be the case. However, most people have to do some acrobatics when it comes to creating a layout where guests will be sitting far away from individuals who might cause conflict. Despite how involved this task can be, it is far from one of the first things you should be thinking about while planning your big day.
In truth, you need to have your venue booked before you even start thinking about the seating chart. What’s more, you really can’t start creating a layout until you know how many guests will be able to attend. No matter how stressed you are about making the perfect seating arrangement, put this job off until a bit down the line.
Planning the Honeymoon
This might seem like a given, but you really shouldn’t plan out your honeymoon until you’ve taken care of a majority of your wedding tasks. The honeymoon traditionally happens right after the wedding finishes, but this doesn’t mean it needs to be connected to the planning process. A discussion about where you would like to go and how much you both want to spend on the trip is fine. However, you should really delay making any concrete plans for your honeymoon until you feel confident that your nuptials are all set and ready.
After getting engaged, it is natural to feel a rush of excitement and anticipation for all that is in store. In order to maintain your drive and not get overwhelmed by all the tasks that need to be taken on, be sure to focus only on the most pressing matters at first. Pacing yourself in this way will help you see better results and keep your stress levels in a manageable place.
Wedding veils can add an aura of grandeur to your wedding attire, and may enhance your wardrobe depending on your beliefs and tastes.
In 2015, Wedding Bellsestimated that around 160,000 weddings are performed annually in Canada. For many brides, assembling their attire for the special day is a mix of major decisions and minor details. That includes whether to include wedding veils, garments once taken for granted as automatic parts of a bride’s nuptial attire. Whether you wear this iconic piece of nuptial apparel or not is your choice. As you deliberate, it’s helpful to know some of the histories behind the practice of wearing wedding veils, plus the style and fabric options at your disposal.
Why Have Brides Worn Veils?
In Western weddings, veils have been a ubiquitous staple in bridal wear. While there are many possible origins of this custom, most writers suggest that they were worn either for superstitious, practical, religious or surreptitious reasons. Some say brides donned them in ancient Rome to keep evil spirits at bay, while others believe the practice may have been adopted to prevent grooms from seeing their future spouses until the last possible minute. Meanwhile, others point to the symbolism of purity and virginity, both in religious and social contexts, along with potentially troubling implications that they may be a relic from patriarchal times when women were seen as property. It’s also been suggested that brides may have worn them to keep angry, rival lovers from spotting and abducting them from their own ceremonies!
The Pros and Cons of Wedding Veils
If your special day is veil-optional, you might have several reasons to pick them—and probably just as many to ditch them. On one hand, your wedding is probably the only time you’ll get to wear such a delicate, gorgeous accessory. Your entrance into the venue while draped in its fabric, as well as the moment when it’s lifted from your face, can provide stunning points of drama in your ceremony. Moreover, most versions are detachable and are friendly on your budget. Conversely, you may find the traditional meanings behind them distasteful or contrary to your beliefs on gender equality. On a more practical note, they can be unwieldy, easily tossed about by the wind or becoming a prime attraction for insects of the flying, stinging kind.
An Endless Array of Styles and Options
Understanding the kinds of wedding veils available on the market can aid in choosing the best one for your wedding day ensemble. The Knot provides a great guide on some common lengths and cuts. Shorter versions include the birdcage, a unique option that pairs well with vintage gowns, and the blusher, a single-layer veil with a hemline that ends just short of the tip of your nose. Longer varieties include flyaway, elbow and fingertip veils. Cathedral and chapel lengths are usually the longest versions, adding an extra dose of grandeur to formal wedding gowns.
Fabric also contributes to a veil’s look and feel. The VeilStyle Blog published a thorough resource on typical options such as tulle, nylon, chiffon and organza. One kind of nylon material known as “Bridal Illusion” is translucent, making it ideal for photographs. Some varieties, such as silk tulle, drape well but are more fragile. Silk chiffon, a natural fiber, is best for single-layer designs due to its heavier weight. Finally, organza is crisp, with a fine texture and a beautiful sheen.
Religious Significance or Wedding Day Drama
Wedding veils can sometimes evoke some “spirited” debate over how, when and by whom they should be worn. If you opt to incorporate one in your ensemble, you have a huge range of cuts, materials and colors from which to select. Personal preference, religious beliefs and sartorial sensibilities may dictate whether you don one or not on your special day.
Incorporating surprises into your wedding can be a great way to spice things up and give your guests a memorable experience.
Attending a wedding can be a lovely experience. Guests have the benefit of going to this type of event and dancing, drinking, eating, and engaging with a fun night centered on love. Of course, plenty of people have been to countless weddings in their lives. If you’re planning for your big day, then you might want to think about incorporating surprises into the night’s itinerary. This can be a great way to transform your nuptials into something a little more exciting than most people will be anticipating.
There are plenty of simple and effective ways to surprise your guests. Consider these surprises and find a fun way to keep the people at your wedding guessing.
A Whole New Outfit
Most couples spend a lot of time and money on the outfits they wear on their wedding day. The dress a bride selects, for example, tends to be an important decision. While guests at your event are definitely going to comment on how wonderful you and your significant other look as you walk down the aisle, you can squeeze a bit more excitement out of your look than you might think. A costume change can be a fantastic way to show off a second look to your friends and family members.
It is also important to think about how a costume change is more than simply an opportunity for you to wear another amazing outfit. For many brides, dancing during a wedding can be an impossible task. With so many flailing, drunken bodies on the dance floor, a bride might feel as if her dress will be ruined by one simple misstep. By changing into an outfit that lends itself to dancing, you are putting your fears to rest while also giving yourself a chance to freely bust a move.
Dessert Surprises
What you wear will definitely have an impact on guests, but there are other areas on which you can focus if you want to offer surprises. The food at your event will be a feature that people will remember. To really wow the crowd, you may want to play around with the menu in a few unexpected ways. Your caterers will be able to provide a delicious dinner, but you can work wonders if you decide to focus your energy on re-imagining the way you provide dessert.
In addition to the wedding cake, think about what sweet treats will leave your guests smiling and satiated. An ice cream sundae bar is always an excellent choice, but you can even go a few steps beyond this idea. A milkshake bar can be a great way to give your guests a delicious, creamy way to wash down the cake and other desserts. Plus, you can even work with the bar to offer a special dessert cocktail that guests can sip on as the evening winds to a close.
The Afterparty
Finally, when the night has ended, you may have guests who want to keep the party going. Hosting an “afterparty” is the best way to make sure you and your new spouse are involved with all the excitement. Whether you decide to host this party in your hotel room or you bring the whole crew to a local bar, make sure you are offering plenty of snacks and drinks to the crowd and you’ll be sure to see a satisfied group.
Surprising the guests at your wedding isn’t necessary, but it can definitely shake things up and deliver a memorable night people will be talking about for a long while. Find an idea that works for you, and see what surprises you can offer the crowd.
Wedding industry vendors jumped on the online commerce bandwagon long ago, but is it wise to buy everything for your wedding online?
Thanks to the rapid advancement of technology and e-commerce, nearly anything can be bought online: groceries, movie tickets, medications, music, vehicles, and more. Wedding industry vendors jumped on the online commerce bandwagon long ago, making it possible to do everything from selecting and printing invitations to purchasing gowns and formal suits. E-commerce offers valuable perks such as convenience and saving money, but is it wise to buy everything for your wedding online? The answer to this question isn’t as straightforward as you might think.
Essential Privacy and Security Tips
More than 80 percent of Canadian brides bought at least one wedding-related item online, according to a Weddingbells survey published in 2015. Wedding décor and supplies, favors, invitations, and fashion accessories are some of the most common purchases. However, couples’ and attendants’ attire also end up on many nearlyweds’ online shopping lists. Many save time, gasoline, and money while discovering great finds that they can’t get from local retailers.
Sounds convenient and easy, right? Well, you still must carefully choose which vendors will get your hard-earned cash. LifeLock, an American identity theft protection company, offers several smart tips for safe online shopping:
Purchase only from trusted websites.
Do your homework about each vendor. Check for legitimate contact information, and be sure to read online customer reviews.
Verify that the website has privacy protection and SSL encryption enabled.
Don’t give out too much personal information.
Be wary of extremely low prices and “too good to be true” deals.
Also, LifeLock advises that it’s better to use a credit card for your online purchases, as you’ll steer clear of scammers siphoning funds from your primary bank account should your data become compromised. The Financial Consumer Agencyreveals that your maximum liability for unauthorized charges cannot be more than $50. Also, you will be reimbursed in full if you took appropriate privacy precautions. To protect yourself, monitor your credit card accounts frequently and take immediate action if you notice unauthorized charges or don’t receive your merchandise.
Helpful Hints for Online Attire Purchases
A blog post by Young Hip and Married, a Vancouver-area wedding services provider, divulges that the average wedding dress costs $1,779 in Canada. The Better Business Bureau of Western Ontario adds that the average wedding tuxedo rental is $297, while Huffington Post contributor Andrea Traynor mentions that made-to-measure suits usually cost at least $500 and bespoke suit prices start at around $2,000.
Most of these figures aren’t as extravagant as the starting price of a Vera Wang gown or an Armani suit, but tighter budgets are one reason why many couples are turning to the internet to find their wedding apparel. Some of the same general tips for online shopping apply, but NerdWallet writer Laura McMullen shares more wise advice to help online buyers get the most for their money:
Review the retailer’s policies, especially on returns and expected delivery time frames.
Investigate your fabric options. Knowing each material’s basic properties can help you choose garments that are appropriate for your season and venue.
Shop for pieces that best flatter your body type.
Take your measurements, and follow each company’s sizing guidelines.
Careful Online Shopping Is Key
Online vendors can make your search for wedding supplies and attire easier, but it pays to take some precautions as you shop. Such safeguards include researching each company, purchasing only from trusted suppliers, and confirming that retailers are using the appropriate security protocols. Buying wedding attire can be especially tricky, but you can score good-quality finds if you know your measurements, choose garments that fit properly, and select fabrics that mesh with your event’s season and desired aesthetic. With these best practices, you’ll find the goods you need while avoiding fraud and misunderstandings.
To discover a wedding dress that perfectly encapsulates your persona, look into some of the latest and hottest fashions while you explore your options.
weThe right outfit can really change the way a person feels about an event. When it comes to your wedding, for example, you are going to end up putting many hours into searching for the ideal wedding dress. For brides, this means taking time to “say yes to the dress.” Bridal gowns and dresses have remained somewhat consistent over the years in regards to general style and color. While brides might have been wearing white to weddings for quite a bit of time, you should feel free to explore your options.
Each year, new and interesting design trends come about for brides to consider for their wedding dress. To discover a dress you feel perfectly encapsulates your persona, it might be a useful idea to think about some of these latest and more interesting fashions. Accessorize your dress in the right manner, play around with color, and personalize your outfit for your own special day.
Like a Princess
Though it might seem somewhat cliché, many people want to feel like royalty on the day they get married. While you might not have been born into the correct lineage to ascend to the throne, you definitely can create a look of a noteworthy aristocrat. One way to tackle this goal is by investing in accessories for your wedding dress. Lately, a hot trend for wedding fashions has the bride adopting all sorts of interesting accessories in order to fully flesh out her appearance while walking down the aisle. This task is simple when you explore options like princess capes.
Princess capes, also known as “royal capes,” have been making a huge splash at special events all over the world. While you might not be next in line for the throne, you definitely can cultivate an appearance of decadence and class with a few small touches. If you believe your outfit will benefit from this addition, take time to consider all the style choices available to you and set out on finding the ideal match for your cape.
Ruffles in Your Wedding Dress
The style of the dress is something to play around with during the preparation stages of your wedding. In 2017, a number of prolific designers showcased ruffled bridal dresses at an array of large fashion shows. The designers, including such hot names as Vera Wang and Casablanca, have helped to launch a movement in regards to upcoming weddings. Brides all over have been rushing to boutiques and retail shops to get fitted for dresses with sweetheart necklines and layers of thin and dainty ruffles.
Though this option can seem appealing, it is important to remember it is not going to look wonderful on everyone. Some design strategies can come across as awkward or clunky on specific body types. When you are picking your dress, it is best to have yourself fitted by a professional so you can get a better feel for how the dress can be altered. Buying a dress online can also be a good option as long as you understand you might need to put a lot of money down to have it altered.
Touch of Blue
Finally, current designs are pushing away from the concept of a “white wedding.” Though innumerable brides still opt to wear white, many are considering other choices for their looks. Lately, a big trend is to use a slight splash of blue in the dresses. In most situations, the blue is very faint and simply adds a bit of life and dimension to the dress. This might be an ideal way to bring some color to the event.
Picking the right wedding dress for your special day can be a lot of work. Get ready to “say yes to the dress” by thinking over all of the latest style and design trends and landing on an option that appeals most to you.
